A little honesty can be good, right?

These are things he said to me that I refused to believe. They are not one time statements but used repeatedly, I chose to ignore them. Here they are without my reasoning of why he said them. Just his words. Not pretty, but necessary for me to share. You all know why.

I won't include any of the nice things he said because I know now that it was all bullshit.

I don't respect you.

I can't approach a woman if I respect her.

I want beauty.

I can show emotion without feeling it.

It is just sex, nothing more.

I am selfish.

I am egotistical.

I want it all, whatever my "all" is.

I asked you to come because I felt sorry for you.

I don't love you.

I didn't need you to be here.

You will have to leave so my kids don't wake up and know you are here.

I want a woman who does more with her spare time.

I want a woman that is financially stable.

It doesn't matter to me either way whether we talk or not.

I am an asshole and one day you will see that.

Sure, you can come over if you want, it doesn't matter to me either way.

No, I don't understand how you feel. Sorry. Hang in there.

I don't need this every time I talk to you.

I want to date other women.

Well, that was a little uncomfortable to put out there but it is what it is, right? Thanks for listening. xoxo