Looking at my part
Looking at my part
3 days nc. Cantbhelp wondering what he's up to.
I am in a 12 step fellowship and for many many years looked at my part of things and how I Gould change rather than blaming and looking at others faults.
For all the 14 years of my marriage I always looked at my part and what I had done wrong. Feels weird not to do this now.
I wasn't perfect by a long way and in the early hours of this morning blamed myself for everyone and saw my ex as hurt rather than bad.
So hard to remember how awful it was.
Is this normal...I to and fro from...it's him...it's me...it was us....it's him....it's me....it was us.....blah blah blah
For now it has to be enough that prior to him leaving I was desperately sick, psychologically, physically spiritually etc and now it's getting better.
Maybe it doesn't matter who's to blame.
Confused
Jelic
"For now it has to be enough
Jelic
Hi Michele/Hi Jelic
Jackguy
jelic
Jelic, I, too, am in a 12
Wacaet
12 step
I stopped blaming myself
Who is to blame?
Hi jelic, well done on the 3