My Story Blubutterfly

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#1 Dec 31 - 4PM
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My Story Blubutterfly

I just kicked out my boyfriend of 3 years and I have known him for 16 years. We have one daughter. I had an on and off relationship with him for years. I finally asked him to move in with me 3 years ago. In the beginning he told me that he loved me and did things around the house. I paid all the bills. He wanted to get a bigger house, but I refused since we were not financially stable and he didn't give me much money so I would be the responsible one. About a month ago I found out that he got a house behind my back with the help of his dad. He also hooked up with a 29 year old at the local bar. I am 42 years old and he is 41 years old. When he didn't come home one night I confronted him and packed up a few belongings in plastic bags. I also told my daughter that I was kicking him out. She also wanted him out. Apparently he told my daughter that he was getting this house and she told me that he was also seeing this other girl. He said that if he doesn't get the house then he would stay with me. When I confronted him he denied everything to this day he has not apologized. He acts like nothing happened. Then he blamed the break up on me since I had packed a few of his belongings. My daughter confronted him and asked that he tell me about this other girl. He said okay he would tell me that he met her after I kicked him out (not true) and it would probably make me cry, but if my daughter wanted him to tell me he would. Now he's got this house with a mortgage he can't possibly afford and he convinced this new girl who has a 4 year old boy to sell her house and move in with him. I also had to cut off my friends that were related to him since they could only see his good side and excuse his bad behavior. My question is do their actions ever catch up with them? I keep thinking why does he get to be happy and I don't.

Feb 28 - 4PM
cjensen
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dodging a bullet

Jan 4 - 10AM
HappyToForget
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The house

Dec 31 - 5PM
Lorelie123
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I struggle w that as well.

Dec 31 - 5PM (Reply to #2)
Blubutterfly
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Thank you for the kind words.