How did your daughter do over the weekend, if you don't mind me asking? I'm sorry if I came off too strong in my responses to you. Been thinking of you!
Thanks for asking. (I posted somewhere about wkend). No, you weren't too hard on me! We have to be blunt with each other. We've all been looking through "rose colored glasses" long enough!!! He had the nerve to text me later on in the evening & said i was selfish & unfair. These guys never get tired of blaming other people, do they?! I tell you what, if it was my weekend, I'd be taking her with me come hail or high waters! Lol! But then again, I wouldn't go months without seeing her either! How are things going with you? Are you ready for Christmas?
Yeah - SO ready. The kids and I get to fly "home" (where I am from) for the holidays. It will be SOOO good to be surrounded by family. I have had to see my STBX Narc 6 days a week for the past few months. This wasn't what I had in mind when I left him. I wish he would get a life, or at least a job, and leave me and the kids alone. I know I'm not supposed to think that way but honestly...he's a train wreck. Blah. But yeah, looking forward to Christmas! Do you have to do this again with him - is he supposed to have a long visit with her then?
I'll have to read your story again, but why do you have to see him so much? (Barf!) I can't stand the thought of having to see my exN even once in a while! Everytime its his weekend, I get all stressed out. Although he's yet to show up for the past few months. He always has an excuse...This Friday is his weekend and he said he told his boss he had to leave work early enough to pick up daughter by 6 and his boss is supposively going to allow him to leave work. Who knows with those pathological liars. You can't believe anything they say. Was your exNarc a liar too? Mine will lie about the time of day!
Oops! I see your post now
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Yeah - SO ready. The kids
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