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The Narc is upsetting my friends now!

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#1 Nov 13 - 2PM
Tiffany30
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The Narc is upsetting my friends now!

I just need to vent! Thanks for reading this.

My narc is taking classes to become catholic (which he couldn't stand whole time we were married and I am Catholic). My best friend goes to the church where he is taking classes...she was in church this morning when they announced the people that are becoming catholic in the church and they announced his name, then they announced the people who are sponsoring them (which is the OW) he has a baby with. My friend said she came to tears and had to leave because she knows how he treated me and knows the whole becoming catholic is fake for him! She said that she sat in her car and cried! She thinks he saw her leave too, which I know that just made him feel great. Thanks for listening, I just had to vent about the worthless asshole!

I am 18 days NC now!

Nov 15 - 12PM
Hunter
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Wow! the catholic church has

Wow! the catholic church has come along way.. A divorced man with an illegitimate child.. My guess is he lied to the church.. Should this be questioned with the heads?? I'm catholic I find this puzzling .. You know what.. She can have him ..and the church too.. Mirror ,Mirror on wall.. Hunter
Nov 15 - 3PM (Reply to #4)
Tiffany30
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Hunter, Yes it does seem a

Hunter, Yes it does seem a little odd? I actually emailed Father from the church and asked him about how the whole process goes with him becoming catholic and when I would be receiving papers that I need to fill out before he can get an annulment. Father said that I wouldn't have to fill anything out for him to become catholic and join the church just have to fill out papers for the annulment which are about our relationship and our marriage that will be sent to me from somewhere else. I don't have to participate if I don't want to. Should I fill the papers out or not participate? Maybe I will decide when I get them? I really hope that he didn't lie to the church but I did tell Father that he was my ex husband in the email just in case he did.
Nov 16 - 2PM (Reply to #5)
Hunter
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Oh he's a liar.. Maybe the

Oh he's a liar.. Maybe the church should perform an exorcism ?.. Can't hurt .. Right?? I guess it's all about forgiveness.. Hunter
Nov 13 - 5PM
Anari
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That sounds like sweet

That sounds like sweet revenge to me from divine intervention honey. This means yes he'll make an extra effort to learn the ropes of this religion but he is a step closer to god and dearly dear god will see that he is punished for his wrong doings and to god he will repent. And my dear, you will reap the benefits because you wanted him to be catholic in the first place. This my dear is sweet sweet revenge -- divine revenge. Seriously.
Nov 14 - 10PM (Reply to #2)
Tiffany30
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Yes indeed Sweet Revenge!!!

Yes indeed Sweet Revenge!!!