I am not really a cuddler...he was. lol! A psychopath narc who liked to cuddle.
I'm sorry, I can't relate. But, yes, it could have very well been a red flag, indeed. I mean, if you liked it, and he knew that, and didn't give a rip...then, yes...that's a red flag.
thats what I thought. I would reach over and touch him, rub his back, etc......and no response what so ever. One time we were on vacation in Florida, it was pouring our last day there. I had to catch a 6pm flight home but actually welcomed the rain, thinking we would spend the day indoors enjoying a passionate day together. He sat on the bed in the hotel, arms crossed and legs crossed, watching a criminal minds marathon. I would try to snuggled up to him, he never released his arms and touched me. He just sat there staring at the tv for hours. I wished that I had scheduled an ealier flight home that day! Amazing, when you look back at the whole relationship. I think to myself, how could you have ignored that? Live and learn, right?
Ha! I is ironic that he was watching criminal minds wasn't it? At one point he commented, "I'm so bored" and I responded, "Geez, that's the first time a man ever told me he was bored while alone with me in a hotel room" He responded back "well, how many times have you been with a man in a hotel?" He was such (or I should say is such) a WEIRDO!!!
Not a cuddler either
He ALWAYS had to be touching me. it was annoying.
Sorry i cant relate to this one either but IM SURE there are plenty others that can.
I am not really a
thats what I thought. I
OMG, mine loves "Criminal
and the irony of him watching
Ha! I is ironic that he was
Not a cuddler either He