No contact impossible need advice
No contact impossible need advice
Sadly, I can't go totally NC. I work with the Narc. I do see though that contact IS pain and I do everything in my power to avoid it. And after 8 months of suffering, I am seeking therapy. Here's the thing. I have to see the Narc and her new gf at work. I know the Narc is incapable of love and will eventually discard this woman, but I so mourn the loss of the idealization phase, that it's very painful to see. One minute I'm fine, the next I break into tears.
Any advice on practical things I can do/think as I have to observe this.? I love my job. I want to be comfortable at the place where I spend the majority of my life and some days it's hell. What's worse is most people have no idea what happened and speak to me as if we're friends. I have started avoiding many people because I don't even want to hear her name.
And of course it sucks to see her so happily pursuing someone as I seek therapy for the damage 16 weeks of our relationship did to me.
Words of wisdom anyone?
Re read what you just wrote..
And by the way
Sorry for all The Typos, Hunter
I understand.. I know if I
Thanks, Hunter
Yes. I really love this job
So sorry for you sweetheart
i know it would never be the same
It does suck...
IWAAH
She Kinda Makes it Easy For me
I'm more than civil
Yeah...
Oh hon
Hi, snowflake
Let her flaunt it. The new
here's the thing..
Thanks HelpMeHeal
They are sick arent they
The Therapist
Thanks