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Not Nice...Won't Be Nice....Can't Be Nice = FRAUD

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#1 Feb 10 - 11AM
StillHurting
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Not Nice...Won't Be Nice....Can't Be Nice = FRAUD

Talking to him now knowing that he has a disordered personality is quite a different experience!

The man is totally grouchy and mean all the time! Putting me on hold for so long that I hang up, cutting me off in the middle of a sentence, hanging up without saying good buy...these are just some of the rude things that I hear now.

Talking about everybody behind their backs! Having a friend over and then going on and on the next day about how annoying the person is, but he needs the man around to help him with something to do with work. Getting together with family members for what should be a nice time, and then saying how the people make him sick and he couldn't wait to leave.

Lashing out at people while driving. Everybody out there is an ass*&le and a terrible driver.

What a total fraud. Wow! He was so nice to me, and I don't know how he pulled it off for so long. I think there is something to the whole mirroring thing. I am very polite, considerate, punctual, responsible, romantic, and he was being this way to me only to be like me. He is not this way, people. What a total fraud. So glad I have fallen OUT OF LOVE with this ass.

Feb 10 - 1PM
StillHurting
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I know....

I think he was looking for a way to stay where he is by finding happiness outside of his home. I just wish he didn't meet up with me. Having a bond like that meant quite a bit to me. Oh well, his total loss.
Feb 10 - 12PM
gettinbetter
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stillhurting I think you're

stillhurting I think you're getting it now :) I must say nine years is a long time to wear the mask. I bet ya he's got a ton of pent up rage
Feb 10 - 11AM
neverlookback
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What a total fraud.

That is after all the MAIN behavior of them, they are frauds and method actors, thats it, nothing more. Yours sounds like mine, soo nice to their faces but behind closed doors wouldnt they love to see what this man is capable of doing? And you now what I am talking about. I know it disgusts you, but I have even gone a step further it not only disgusts me it SCARES THE HELL OUT OF ME these are some REALLY REALLY disturbed individuals. They pull it off so long because they arent really pulling anything, this is what they have been doing their whole life, its WHO THEY ARE it comes natural to them. THey are frauds because they dont know how else to be. Yes be glad you no longer feel love for this person it makes it easier to get them out of your life, they are dangerous, STAY AWAY.