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#1 Sep 28 - 8AM
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NPDZ ex-man story

I'm a single man in his mid 50s. Have had my share of life experiences. Graduated from a university/cum laude. Have a wonderful teenage daughter. HOWEVER--dealing with a N has no bounds. Nothing--I mean NOTHING can prepare you for the vortex I was/am in. Been out of the relationship on a romantic level for 4 years, but still have to speak with her due to our daughter.

She found a new man 4 years ago that made her feel young again. So she left me. She recently d/d him and found someone else.

There is no need to list the many horrors she put us through. Just read the stories in this forum and you will see them all.
She is a "textbook N".

What I can't shake is, "Why do I still have the desire to get back with this woman". She treated me and my daughter like crap. And from what I can see--THERE HAS BEEN NO CHANGE WHAT-SO-EVER. Am I CRAZY?

Sep 30 - 7PM
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Jaycee

Thank you for such a kind and encouraging reply. I'm glad I found this site with someone as generous as you. I hope to post more in the future but I'm a poor typist. When I have a couple of free hours I will post a few more sentances.LOL Thank you again. I wish you a speedy recovery.
Sep 28 - 2PM
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24 years

npdz, guess what you are not crazy, you invested the same amount of time as i did, twenty four years, thats a long time to be shit on, trust me, ive been there, n's are no picnic, but getting over them is so tough, im still in the beginning stage threw him out only six months ago, but still ache each and everyday, so i know how you feel, you still have to deal with her because of your child, but you should feel victorious, she d&d her man and went onto the next, she will never be happy and i am sure as i am standing her, she wishes she never left you, but her selfishness its all about me lifestyle and code of ethics, make her what she is......a user and will never admit to anything she has and will do to both of you.. thank God you have your daughter, it sounds like she is with you, thank God i have my kids, because i dont know where id be without them....you are not crazy, you are just a beautiful human being who happened to love the wrong person, and still obviously love her, or you still desire that family you once had, it all an illusion, and if you took her back, you would kick her to the curb in no time, because she will only continue what she has done forever to everyone.........you are not crazy, you are a genuine human being with emotions and fk her, shes a looser, just like my hN.....they all think the grass is greener, they all want to feel young again........but guess what........they never find what they are looking for, because it doesnt exist........good luck to you and love your daughter because that is real..........

Jaycee