N's and sexual dysfunction
N's and sexual dysfunction
Good grief, there is endless material to talk about here.
It would be interesting to hear what others here have to say about this.
The N I was with was someone who spends a great deal of his spare time pursuing sex. And he's a good looking man...very good looking and he knows it. He's a musician, very handsome, beautiful body for a man his age and has plenty of "chick magnet" qualities. So on the outside, there he is..the stallion fully equipped to get plenty of ladies swarming around.
What I discovered was very interesting although maybe for more experienced ladies not so surprising. For all the ramp up and expectations and excitement about sleeping with him, as I posted before, the sex was very "vanilla porn." Passionate and energetic, but porn like..almost cliche with some of the expressions he was using...stuff you'd hear in a porn movie.
The real interesting thing was he told me he had a hard time climaxing. He had no problem getting aroused..all you had to do was look at him and it went up. He said he had had problems with premature ejaculation in the past, so he had tried to compensate by holding off, and seemed to get himself stuck in some sort of psychological trap of now taking *forever* to climax.
Of course I was nice about it and told him I didn't have a timer in bed with me..no pressure, just enjoy yourself. He wanted me to tell him it was okay to orgasm, so I had to keep encouraging him. There were points I could tell he was getting frustrated. "Why can't I cum?" he would say after a certain point.
Eventually it happened, but I could sense it was more like relief at the end of an ordeal than real pleasure.
This was just so eye opening for me, because you would think the ONE thing a somatic N would have all wrapped up is the sexual experience..the one thing he lives for more than anything else.
And to have to endure a woman watching him struggle with this..after all his seduction of her to GET to this point..what humiliation for him. I mean, this isn't something a man can fake.
I suppose this isn't necessarily an N related issue, this can happen to any man..but it is a curious "crack in the facade of Don Juan."
mine was confusing. with me,
Didn't have ED
never again...........
Buy a vibrator!
sex talk
Aceonelady
Premature ejack
they damage us sexually
Cynthia...you are SO right here.....
I know
Why even bother
hey what if we cut off their hands?
left or right
Oh, my, Nothanx....ours were SO similar!
No normal sex...ever
Nothanx
Cynthia
normal sex?
Barbara...I am 99.9% certain mine was an intellectual N...
Monica
Seriously! They say so much
and wtf stuff.
sounds like
Bizarre
are you spying on my life?
same
cynthia
too much work....
Aceonelady
thats the thing...you scared
hi wounded soul....is aceonelady
Aceonelady
they are just twisted