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Past behavior, predicts future behavior.....

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#1 Jun 29 - 5PM
thisisnotfun
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Past behavior, predicts future behavior.....

I do believe that past behavior does predict future unless we have changed that behavior and have grown and learned how not to repeat that. N/P can't change and don't want to grow..... Without the ability to change and grow you have an empty soul....

Jun 29 - 5PM
imabloke
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It happened before, and it'll happen again, it just takes time.

This is what i'm now finding... A couple of weeks ago I was in totally mind f**k. I literally thought i was going insane. I thought maybe it's me, perhaps i'll have to treat people like crap to get on in the world. What's going on? up is down, down is up. BUT it's not you it's them (or her in my case). Your right. She (exN) won't change because she literally can't. She's now with her boss and God knows what's going to happen when he goes mad or gets DD'd or leaves her. I just hope to God she doesn't come round to my house. And I know i'm at least the 3rd long term relationship she's had that's gone the same overlap cycle.. Idealization and then DD. and there'll be another, another. Its sad really. Quite pathetic.