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#1 Oct 28 - 12PM
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He just stopped talking to me over something so small

He just stopped talking to me Hello, I believe I am dealing with a Narc. This man spent alot of money to find me. 31 years ago, we lived together for four years. We were young and it did not work. I always loved and missed him. When he contacted me, I was soooo happy. We talked and sent pics and videos, caught up with our lives, I had a young son that was not his, but he helped me raise, who is a grown man now. They started talking and my son said he felt an instant connection. Because we had a routine, he called me every morning, I called at night and we went to sleep together every night on the phone. Oh we are in different states. Very far away from each other. He sent for me and the visit was magical. We contiuned on with our relationship, he said he wanted me to move there in his first phone call, I wanted to wait a little while. I bought a plane ticket to go visit again, during a work break and he seemed so excited. A couple of nights went by without hims answering my nightly calls, and when he did call me back on the third night, while outside walking his dog. He seemed as if he was rushing to get me off of the phone, So I said is everything okay, we are so far away from each other, and I am feeling distance. He screamed and said you don't ask a grown man why he doesn't answer his phone and I said well we have a routine, so I keep calling. Anyway, the call ended with him telling me off and him saying that I was the one arguing. He hung up and did not answer my calls, text, or emails, or my sons calls. I canceled my plane ticket and sent him the cancellation. This was two months ago, and I have not tried to contact him and he has not contacted me. I am trying to be strong, I have loved this man for over 30 years. I see on hear that I need to be prepared for him to come back, but how can someone so cold want to come back? And how do I prepare myself for it. Again he is long distance. Please help me, I am in a great deal of pain. Thanks

Nov 4 - 7AM
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That's not why

Nov 4 - 10AM (Reply to #24)
Goldie
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Tis the season to deny it.

Nov 4 - 10AM (Reply to #25)
perplexed penny
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I'm just so damn mad

Nov 4 - 7AM (Reply to #22)
Used
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pp

Nov 4 - 11AM (Reply to #23)
perplexed penny
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I know

Nov 4 - 7AM
talktothehand
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Penny

Nov 4 - 12AM
Im_always_fine
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"There isn't a day go by that

Oct 29 - 2PM
agnesmurphy17
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Limerence

Nov 3 - 3PM (Reply to #18)
Goldie
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WOW Agnes, talking about nailing it

Oct 30 - 7AM (Reply to #17)
perplexed penny
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This is my theory also

Oct 29 - 3PM (Reply to #16)
Very happy girl
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Ding ding ding!!

Oct 28 - 6PM
perplexed penny
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Please read my story I need feedback

Oct 30 - 7AM (Reply to #2)
spinning
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Perplexed...

spinning

Oct 30 - 7AM (Reply to #3)
perplexed penny
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Just wanted to know

Oct 30 - 8AM (Reply to #4)
spinning
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perplexed...good on you...

spinning

Oct 30 - 11AM (Reply to #5)
perplexed penny
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Thank you spinning

Oct 30 - 11AM (Reply to #6)
spinning
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perplexed, you are getting it!

spinning

Nov 3 - 12PM (Reply to #7)
perplexed penny
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Thanks Spinning

Nov 3 - 12PM (Reply to #8)
talktothehand
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Blow him out

Nov 3 - 2PM (Reply to #9)
perplexed penny
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Block him

Nov 4 - 7AM (Reply to #14)
talktothehand
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Every reason

Nov 3 - 3PM (Reply to #10)
Goldie
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I am sure you could FIND his number if you wanted to

Nov 4 - 2AM (Reply to #11)
round3
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Blocking is for you PP - not xN

Nov 6 - 7AM (Reply to #13)
perplexed penny
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Round3

Nov 4 - 10AM (Reply to #12)
perplexed penny
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Exactly what I did not want to feel