Quick thought about Word Salad
Quick thought about Word Salad
We make much here, especially to confused newcomers,about the word salad of narcs, and that while they seem to be speaking English, they are really just throwing out a disordered pile of lies, things they saw in movies, things other people have screamed at THEM probably, lies, impulsive stupid thoughts, and more lies. Plus some lies. None of it makes sense, none of it MEANS anything, so there is no point in analyzing their "thoughts." It's a waste of time, and they will change their words, completely contradict themselves without blinking an eye, and think you shouldn't notice it either. This is part of being disordered.
Another thing to keep in mind is this: it's a two way street! There is a language barrier that can't be crossed.
Nothing we say to THEM makes any difference either. When we try to make them take responsibility, or tell them off, or get them to understand our pain, or teach them how to act human... it's word salad to them. These words and concepts mean NOTHING to them. They might try to pretend sometimes, but they are only pretending. Their brain does not process emotional information like ours. For instance, the word "love" doesn't prompt any more or different emotional response in their brain than the word "rape" or "death" or "spoon" or "table" does.
So, in addition to not listening to them, there is no point in EXPLAINING anything to them either. They only hear blah blah blah blah.. some have even remarked that N's have called it "white noise." SO... for the umpteenth time ;P NO CONTACT is the way to go... because you might as well be talking in Mandarin Chinese or Klingon for that matter...
blessings to all!
LOVE this post
Pontouf
Predator
better off -youre great!
Thank you for your sweet
I'm praying for your
Betteroff
So True
Thx fln, I do have another
betteroff
LOL
can i have a song too???
I...
betteroff
OMG
happynow
Dance!!
Great point Betteroff!
they have it down to a
almostlydia
Copycats
Copycats
LOVE
It's like spitting in the wind.
Typical N behavior, this
almostlydia
sunflwrgrl
helldweller
With a dead horse
Great thread
White noise
Aceonelady
aceonelady
message received....I think