Rejection
Rejection
The pain of rejection is terrible, it knocks your self esteem into the gutter as we deal with feelings of shame. Then there is the feeling of someone taking a really good look at you in your most vulnerable state saying "No, I dont care for that."
In life there is rejection and we deal with it and grow from it; however, rejection from the narc is diffrent! The difference is we were never on an equal playing field. Our relationship was doomed at "hello." Its like that stupid film Gerry Maguire "You had me at hello" (Jerry Maguire was a raving narc and I would love to see the sequel to that film when the child is in therapy and Mrs Maguire is on a message board for abused women and in search of a good lawyer) The narc had us at hello alright, hook line and sinker ...
The narc has no personality, inside there is a dark hole where normal people have a soul and a clear sense of self. Instead of a soul, the narc has tummble weed. He invents personas to work people which he can switch as quickly as changing a channel on the tv. Essentially,the person who rejected you didn't exist, it was a made up person, a puppet, a fabrication used to manipulate us for the narcs entertainment ...
How can you be rejected by something that dosent exsist ?
What you will find is that through NC and following the Six Steps something wonderful starts to happen, it doesn't happen over night but slowly, slowly.. YOU START TO REJECT HIM .
The feelings of shame turn into anger and eventually disgust and before you know it there are no negative feelings left, just a clear understanding of personality disorders .
Big love Scoop xx
Remember the toxic waste
O.T. I am still in New
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
Another member...
Yes, the fires are much worse
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
It's toxic
Susan , i have been following
You nailed it with this.
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
MW
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Indenail
Re: Scoop's Rejection Post
can't shine
scoop
I was sucked in from day one,
badgerbruno
I am very glad if I can offer