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#1 Jun 10 - 9PM
enoughalready
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sad

All of this discord on this site has made me sad and nervous. I come here to find rest and peace from people who've experience dealing w/ narcs. It saddens me to see others attack other people. We are suppose to support each other, aren't we? I've been depressed today as I feel some of us are falling apart. Let's not forget WHY we are on this website. Thanks to Lisa and Barbara for all their work.

Jun 11 - 6PM
Susan32
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Hope you're feeling better

The drama on these boards has gone over the top lately. Yes, this place is supposed to be a refuge for those who have suffered from Narcs/Psychs. I hope you're feeling better and happier.
Jun 11 - 7AM
Allie (not verified)
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I just have to say it....

I first came to this website BECAUSE of Lisa, I admire the way she goes through life with her hands and heart still open after being hurt by Narcissists, I need that. I also felt a kinship with Barbara from the first time I read her story. Our having "narcs from our youth who came back", makes me want to tune into everything she says, no matter how harsh she says it. There are some on the forum who have a problem with Barbara, and some who have issues with Lisa. You are entitled to your feelings, but NarcNarc how DARE you assume we all think like you, or SHOULD think like you. Nobody's forcing you to stick around. If you don't like Lisa's approach--GET OFF HER SITE. You are filled with bitterness and venom that you seem unable to control, and for the record, sometimes I like to laugh at my narc. Yes, laugh at him, he is pitiful and pathetic and clueless. Whenever I hear Lisa make a joke about a narc or narcissim in general, I think, yes...they are such idiots, aren't they? You don't have to agree, you also don't have to try to crucify Lisa, because you are going to end up destroying this message board...unless that is your intended purpose?
Jun 11 - 5AM
Monica
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Thank you, enoughalready...

For vocalizing what I could not put into words myself last night when I logged on and saw more attacks and discourse. Correct me if I am wrong but...isn't this Lisa's website? Everyone has the right to disagree with any changes she wishes to make but it's her site and we aren't forced to be here, it's our free choice. I, too, am very sad about what is happening. As if we don't already have enough anger and confusion in our lives...it is sad to come here and have to be in the midst of it here, too.
Jun 11 - 3AM
Scoop
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I think things will work out

I think things will work out x
Jun 10 - 9PM
hitandrun
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enoughalready

I can understand why you feel sad...it has been weird. Having not been on the board that long, it seems that Lisa is making some changes that others do not support. Change often causes a lot of uproar. This is just my perspective and is not meant to belittle anyone or their experiences. Hopefully this is just a bump in the road. We have all been through a lot of crap and tend to be sensitive and reactive. Who wouldn't be after being involved with a pathological? We are vocal and intelligent women...it goes over the line at times. I hope you feel better soon.