Should you contact an ExN's ex?
Should you contact an ExN's ex?
Ok,
so now I'm starting to emerge from the horrible black cloud that I was under for such a long time I have begun to really look back and analyse things and wanted some advice on something.....
There was another girl at work who my exN was dating before me. Anyway she appeared to go a bit razy over him and when we got together she tried to sabotage things, cornering him at functions, crying and saying things about me (she didn't really know me at all!) Anyway, at the time I would keep saying to my ex that he needed to deal with it which of coursr he never did.
Now I'm beginning to wonder if perhaps how he treated her had a major impact on how she ended up behaving? He told me that he'd cheated on her over and over and she could never get to grips with the fact he didnn't want to be with her etc etc, same old story, all her fault, not his etc.
Anyway, in the interests of karma and the fact that the thought that someone else has been affected by this idiot and how horrible that can feel, I was considering contacting her to offer an olive branch to chat, if she wants to.
I don't particularly want to drag up lots of history or end up feeling bitter and twisted but thought she might appreciate it and maybe we may feel a little validated if we discussed it.
Any opinions?
great validation......
thanks
I contacted his ex, she'd
Ending the dance
multiple girls...
I think the contacting the
Ending the dance
there's always this route...
there's not a doubt in my
Thanks wounded soul, think
I'm not sure yet...I haven't
woundedsoul
the lengths they go to
I know what you mean, I have
reading about some other
Very true, something my
mutual validation