Stupid is, stupid does

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#1 May 17 - 3PM
enoughalready
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Stupid is, stupid does

I'm walking out of the gym, I see him talking to one of his many friends. He quickly ends the conversation w/ his friend and comes over to my car , he gives me back my cell phone cover I had lost in his car last year and "my" panties. Funny thing- it wasn't my panties!!!! I quickly gave him back the panties grossed out and told him it wasn't mine. He insisted that it was mine cause it was pink, thong from VS and XS. Well- I wear small, he was always not a detail type of person. Anyway, he was mad that I told him to give it back to one of his many sluts. He said, he has been "true and had never slept with anyone in his bed or anywhere" and it must have been his roommate's friend who brings his gf over and uses his bed. ...maybe? How freaking disgusting even more....ewwwh! He asked me if I trust him with his answer and I said NO! He angrily walked to his car and drove off very fast. I came home, vomitted and took a shower. What a day!

May 17 - 7PM
better off
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I think...they were HIS

I think...they were HIS panties. X-D
May 17 - 4PM
helldweller
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enoughalready

I agree that he knew they weren't yours. Just did it to mess with you. My N did crap like that ALL the time. Just like Friday when we got into the brawl. I was because his text alerts kept going off and I was getting madder and madder. And it happens all the time. He got mad about three years ago when we first started seeing each other and the phone rang a few times during a dinner date. Guess what? shut it off when we were together after that. Do you think the cheater could shut off his phone for the hour we were together? No, because he LIKED pissing me off!
May 17 - 3PM
quietude (not verified)
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next time

...he comes up to the car, dial 911 and hold your phone against the window so he can see! ;) No more contact...
May 17 - 3PM
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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what a BASTARD.........

i don't know what i would have done.......someting violent, i imagine.....like shove them down his throat..... “I do not bring forgiveness with me, nor forgetfulness. The only ones who can forgive are dead; the living have no right to forget." - Chaim Herzog
May 17 - 3PM
TexN (not verified)
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I think...

That asshole knew they weren't your panties! He just wanted to get a rise out of you & he did! A year later??! Come on! These guys will do anything for attention!
May 18 - 1AM (Reply to #6)
enoughalready
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Yeah, he knew that would

Yeah, he knew that would hurt me, but I tried not to show any reaction. A few hrs later, didn't know whether to cry or be angry. The visuals are the worst part. But, I'm happy and relieved I'm not w/ the bastard anymore. What a mserable 5 yrs of drama I endured w/ this loser.
May 18 - 12AM (Reply to #4)
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I must have a delayed

I must have a delayed reaction when it comes to XN. A lot of should have,could have and would have's. It's going to be another sleepless night.Since I've blocked everything, it's been quite peaceful, but after seeing him for a few minutes after the gym, only brings me misery and rumination. I think about all the lies, how much he fooled me, what joy it brought him to see me shocked when I told him it wasn't my panties. What a waste of my time ruminiating about all that was said and all lies he told the past 5 yrs. I wish he would move away, go to jail or die from an STD or some illness and leave me the hell alone forever. 10 days and I'll be away for the summer months.
May 18 - 7AM (Reply to #5)
Barbara (not verified)
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enoughalready

we all have delayed reactions it's part of the PTSD "Freeze Response" to their outrageous and infantile behavior to try to jack us up. ~~~~~~~~~ Moving Forward: Coaching for Victims Pathologicals Feelings buried alive never die. - Alice Miller
May 17 - 3PM
broken23
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enough that is too crazy. he

enough that is too crazy. he gave you panties from a year ago? and wanted to know if you trust him. i wonder what thats about.
May 17 - 4PM (Reply to #2)
Janet
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of course he knew they were

of course he knew they were not yours. Just going for a rise. Don't take the bait. Peace. J

Peace. J