Text Conversation Between Ex and Me

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#1 Feb 23 - 2PM
narcsurvivor
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Text Conversation Between Ex and Me

I typed up this text conversation I had with my ex last week mainly because I couldn't obtain a transcript from the phone company. Also, these types of conversations were pretty typical; the N would lash out at any criticism I made, however slight. But mainly, this is related to the threat to sue me from a couple of weeks ago. It lasted an hour. I truly wish I'd emailed him instead of responding to his text (better documentation).

The text in brackets is my response. I kept all his misspellings, etc.

Sat, Feb. 13
What was the purpose of calling me back??? We already said we not talking to each other anymore. I see why u have so many problems with your family, u are apart of the problem. Why don’t u take your annoying, defensive, assuming ass, to (other city), far away from people, and be the black sheep that u are.

[I would if that meant u were going to leave me alone. But we both know that never happens.]

Live your life around people like you, who understand your ignorant logic, that portrays men as trying to use u for something or trying to get some kind of arousal out of annoying u. No friends, (name), always causing drama on herself. And annoying people. Good luck with your adventure with people like u down south. Take you and your cat, down south. Go start over, while u still can. I don’t need your narcasist bullshit comments. Save that for your blogs. U are an lonely nagging bitter old lady, that just want to assume u know everything about everyone, because u read a few things online. Go seek mental help when u get down south. Hurry and go, so me and your sister can be relived, the mean, old black sheep is gone.

[That sounds good to me. At least u finally know how similar u both are.]

Don’t come crying tomorrow, when u want me to come over, either.

[Why would I do that now that ur with someone?]

Im not with anyone yet. There u go assuming things. I see why your family and father tells u to shut up for no reason.

[Really? And here I thought were on my side. Again I’m not surprised u would turn against me.]

I didn’t turn against anyone. U cause SOME of your problems with your family. I couldn’t even ask u a simple question, without u saying I was yelling and needed to calm down. Then u ask me a question, then u answer it before I can say anything. What a retard. U do that with your family im sure, and u get what u deserve.

[U r wrong on my levels. Go to sleep.]

I get it, u on your period now, that is why u left the out burst and left all the emotional emails and comments. Yep, same old (name). Right on time.

[R u keeping track or something?]

I know your body. And I know when u say all your emotional crap at me, and get mad as if u are drunk. Same old (name). Right on time. I guess Ill get my monthly phone call to come over, sometime next week. Just like last month.

[Not anymore. Not since u decided to terrorize me.]

Terrorize u? Well good luck fighting your urges and loneliness Sunday and next week because I wont answer my phone.

[When u tell me ur going to sue me I no longer feel any “urges.”]

Good. that’s what u get for not going by our original agreement. Im going to tell my any potential clients, u are unstable and unreliable, and u went out of business.

[The favor I did for u where u would return the favor by linking and possibly getting me biz all of a sudden includes way more is not an agreement in my book.]

What way more? U sound real stupid when u make up things. I don’t know what “way more” u talking about. Anyway, good luck with your editing business, im sure it will go in the same direction at your blogging business. U run your business with your emotions, which will always be your downfall.

[Thanks for the insincere well wishes. And thanks for threatening me.]

Anytime, miss. Enabler. Truth hurts huh? We will see how my business skills compares to yours.

[What is that supposed to mean?]

It means, we will see who will have a more successful business. All that advice I gave u, I was giving it to u for no reason at all, because I’m a narcissist. Your logic has no explanation to this.

[I hope u succeed. I have always said that. Why r u in competition with me?]

Because u think my business advice is bad, and I’m trying to sabatoge u from day one. All this I did was to annoy u, or set u up for something. Everything I say I’m a narci, trying to hurt u, so I can get some pleasure from this. From 2006, I was trying to make u suffer, for reasons unknown. U sound just like a mental patient in the hospital.

[Well when u throw me a curveball with ur commission plan and whatnot I suddenly feel derailed by u. I thought u were going to sleep?]

I was never serious about the commission thing. I wanted to see what u would say to that. But u took it as a scam, as usual. I never intended to take commission off of u. I wanted to mention it to u, to see how u would take it from a business prospective, but as usual, u thought I was trying to scam u. That’s my fault for even bringing that up, for someone who wears their emotions outside their body.

[Now u see how u derive pleasure from making someone else suffer? Im done texting. Go to sleep. And then get some help.]

Feb. 14, 12:19 AM
Happen valentines!

11:26 PM
How was your valentines?

END

Feb 23 - 4PM
Barbara (not verified)
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UnfavoriteSister

twisted narc word salad, confusion and blah blah blah stop rehashing it and trying to figure it out. block... delete... ignore ~~~~~~~~~ The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein Visit My Info. Website for Abuse Victims
Feb 23 - 4PM (Reply to #2)
rache
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exactly

you will feel so much better!Trust me-i feel alive even after two days NC.And,its going to get even better for me!I'm saving up for a trip to mexico this summer.