They Think I'm a Psycho...

i hear ya on this one! This is what psychonarc did to me. for years and years. He is an abject coward and one of his favorite tactics was to enlist others to help him do his dirty work.He always wanted to have someone standing in front of him, doing his dirty work. a shield. The thing is, it really is damaging.They are so good at what they do, that they can convince almost anyone that you're the crazy or abuisve one. Psychonarc used the police, courts,his exwife, my own brother, people i did business with. Anyone he could think of. He tried to keep me and his ex at odds for years. But during one of his little 'vacations from sanity' i got in touch with her and we had a sit down and compared notes. It was astounding, his pattern and how closely he adhered to it. He had said the exact same things to her, done the exact same things to her, and at the exact same points in time. They love the idea that they are so in demand that people are fighting over them Right now psychonarc has a 'boyfriend'. A drunken loser he's shacking up with and mooching off of. And he's even set up the same scenario with HIM. Telling this loser that i am still crazy about him, stalking him, trying to make me into a rival for his abuse! hahahahaha! i have no advice to offer, because psychonarc smeared me for years and continues to do it to this day. i make an effort to smear him back, and have had some success. i know how maddening it is to be smeared by a psychoharc.

His exes or friends mean nothing to me-neither do I care what they think of me. I mean, he tells everyone that almost all his girlfriends are mad,twisted or demented-that's why they split up(10 women cant ALL be crazy!!). Truth be known I reckon they left him hehehee!!! I remember the girlfriend that he 'loved' that he said was manipulating and cheated on him(I doubt this is true,now) He wanted ME to beat her up!!that it would give him great pleasure to watch me thump her!!I said that I could'nt unless she did something to me. I think her only crime was spurning him! He's probably enjoying you two sparring over him-dont give him the satisfaction!!A form of entertainment.But seriously he's probably found a new victim.

What they think is TRASH. They're wack-jobs, obviously. If you keep ignoring, it'll really drive them into a tizzy because of the sheer fact that you don't give a damn! You can't reason with her, she is way out there and deeply brainwashed. Even when my ex and I were at our "best", and his ex was trying to communicate with us, I played dumb because he told me she was disturbed. I didn't go after her like a damn piranha. I left it alone. Now, I totally feel sorry for her, even though I'm pretty sure they're back together. This girl is out of control. Ignore, ignore...as hard as it is to do sometimes. You are the much better person here, by far!

They'd start beating up on each other.She sounds like a fruitcake to.I know its hard to not just get back at them,but,getting back at them where it hurts is to drop out of the picture and leave them wondering.You cannot fight them at their oewn game.Fight with NC.

why care about the opinions of people who are NOT WORTHY OF YOUR RESPECT OR ATTENTION? if anyone is stupid enough to believe it... NC for them too. Here's just some of the things Psycho-Boy still says about me. http://thestumblingblock.wordpress.com/2008/07/12/lashon-hara-from-ywl/ http://thestumblingblock.wordpress.com/2007/03/15/he-said/ This is why we tell women 'if they smear their ex(es) BEWARE! They're hiding something!' ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website