The ''Time will heal'' lie
The ''Time will heal'' lie
I just posted my story in my profile. I've been lurking since few months here, but I newly registered. I've been reading your posts and I would like to (((((((hug))))))) everybody here for putting so much effort in helping others.
Back to topic. I met my Narc 10 years ago, yet the pain never got away.It is a constant buzz in my head, everyday. It is like a ''phantom pain'' after an amputation.
I went NC 3 weeks ago but it feels terribly draining and painful. I expected to have withdrawal symptoms but everybody keeps saying that it will get better. Ehmmm, is not getting better, is getting worse?! And 10 years went by since my official breakup from Candyman, for God's sake!!.
Somedays I feel that I will never find peace. Right now I feel like writing him an e-mail and shout ''Let me f....breathe! Stop hoovering me spiritually! ''.
Maybe lobotomy would be a solution in my case. I hate this pain. I wanna rip my heart out and jump on it.
Time does heal
Hi BlueMist
thanks for this post
Blue Mist
Stay NC.
Lily
I agree with Lillymarch here
Blue Mist, I too was physical
Physical
I just sent you a message,
Blue Mist
Welcome to Narcville.. I just
Bluemist, you are expecting
Bluemist
Hermes
BlueMist
Hey empath I think BlueMist's
Don't knock therapists--
Just echoing the other ladies
Bluemist
Hey Blue...many of us on this
Girls
My therapist was married to
Bluemist
We are here, BlueMist
Yes
About therapy
Bluemist, HUGS
A sparkle of hope
Hi Bluemist, that thing of