THE TRUTH

Even Benjamin Franklin said "We hold these truths to be self evident..." For us in the field of psychopathology, these self-evident truths are that pathology is permanent whether you believe it or not.

This was taken from a good post Barbara sent. I gathered my last list of equations 2+2=4, it always has and always will, today, tomorrow and for eternity, In my first equations I listed my qualities and how he perverted them, yours did it with you as well, no doubt most of us were whores, sluts, needy, and unstable (ACCORDING TO THEM) Truths that are self evident, here we go:

I MISS YOU SO MUCH - Cant see ya though cause I have to work lots of OT, and my schedule is just crazy

I AM GOING THRU CYNTHIA WITHDRAWLS - cant see ya though because my mom is dying of cancer and I am building a home, and I have to work such crazy hours

SURE WISH YOU WOULD SEE ME HERE SOON - cant see ya though because my girlfriend stays at my house alot, and I have to work the weekends, and I wouldnt have much time to spend with you.

Need I go on, do you have anymore empty promises to offer me? I wasted close to two years of my life hoping and wishing and believing this man loved me. When you stand back and see their actions vs what they say that is how powerful their spell is I mean I would have to be an idiot to see this mans actions vs what he says to me equates anything close to love, I dont believe ANY garbage he tells me about his girlfriend, oops I mean other victim, its all lies. They can rob and torment us temporarily but they are in effect failed lives. For most of us happiness comes through the ability to love, to conduct our lives according to our higher values (most of the time) Psychos, and narcs can not love they do not have higher values and they almost never feel comfortable in their own skins. They are loveless, and amoral. What a pains taking journey we are all going through, and as we move away from them they become sicker and we become more than we ever were.