Ugh!

What can I do not to attract them? I went on a poetry site, just to read and write some poems (I have never been on this one before). It relaxes me and helps me not to think of someone. They have a "chat area". I was just chatting with some people when I could actually watch this guy zero in on me. I timed it! It took 6 minutes and he was sending pms. I have no pictures, nothing on my profile. Within 20 minutes he was calling me dear, dearest, darling. He has had "lots of girls": and they "all broke his heart". He doesn't like to "say goodbye", his last girlfriend he "just left without saying goodbye"! She was a "liar and manipulator"!! I told him I had to leave and go to sleep. He said, "I'll talk to you tomorrow!" It was like talking to my XN for the first time, I swear it was verbatim.

I wish I could block that site. At least I don't have to go back to it.