Upcoming Trouble?

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#1 Jan 24 - 5PM
Scott B.
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Upcoming Trouble?

I've been NC for just over a month now. Not too bad now, feeling better but still have some slight twinges of jealousy, regret, ect., every now and again, but not enough to make me drop NC.

Some mutual friends assure me I'm wrong about her - "She's great, everybody loves her!" "She's just a very capable and driven individual!" Of course, they haven't spent the time with her that I have. So I don't argue with them. I do occasionally wonder if I'm wrong, but then I go back through the literature and facts and... I'm not wrong about her.

But, in another couple weeks she'll be in town for a meeting or two that I will also be required to attend. I have no idea how to read her lack of communication (she hasn't attempted to contact me since I went NC). I have no idea if she's mad and just waiting it out thinking I'll contact her, or just forgotten about me since none of us are very important to an NPD person to begin with. I'm not worried about seeing or speaking to her, but am worried that in our group setting she might attack (verbally) me or badmouth me to the others in the group. I'm not sure how to respond, if at all. Obviously, NPD's are masters at this type of thing. How do I handle it? Any tips.

Jan 27 - 10AM
Hunter
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How to Handel ..take a sick

Jan 25 - 5AM
Lookforward
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Hi Scott,You sound

Jan 25 - 5PM (Reply to #2)
Scott B.
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No, not frightened of her at

Jan 27 - 2AM (Reply to #3)
Lookforward
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Hi Scott, It doesnt matter

Jan 27 - 8AM (Reply to #4)
Scott B.
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I don't think I'm hooked on

Jan 27 - 10AM (Reply to #5)
Goldie
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This is not cookie cutter

Jan 27 - 6PM (Reply to #6)
Scott B.
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I think you just explained it

Jan 28 - 10AM (Reply to #7)
Goldie
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Please read: if you think your narcissist is not "bad enough"

Jan 30 - 9AM (Reply to #8)
Hunter
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Love this response