What is love anyway??

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#1 Feb 13 - 9PM
Sickofhim
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What is love anyway??

Well....I will tell u what it DEFINITELY is not:
Love is not begging for attention
Love is not being insecure and uncertain
Love is not questioning your self-worth
Love is not walking in eggshells
Love is not being called names
Love is not an imbalance of power
Love is not living in fear
Love is not being used
Love is not hateful
Love is not being ignored
Love is not perpetually being told "I'm busy" or "I don't have time for u"
Love is not confusing
Love is not crazy-making

Happy Valentines Day!!!
Hugs!!!! XX

Feb 17 - 11AM
tootsgee
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love is having your fears

Feb 17 - 12PM (Reply to #28)
Sickofhim
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I think that the ignoring of

Feb 17 - 12PM (Reply to #29)
tootsgee
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yes the ignoring is really

Feb 17 - 12PM (Reply to #30)
Sickofhim
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Absolutely brutal. Angry at

Feb 17 - 12PM (Reply to #31)
tootsgee
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i cant even feel anger

Feb 17 - 1PM (Reply to #33)
leslieisback
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Don't be upset with yourself!

Feb 17 - 12PM (Reply to #32)
Sickofhim
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Yup, i accepted a whole lot

Feb 14 - 9AM
sunny1973
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Great reminders

Feb 16 - 7AM (Reply to #2)
Sickofhim
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Thanks....glad it was helpful

Feb 16 - 7AM (Reply to #3)
leslieisback
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SOH

Feb 16 - 7AM (Reply to #4)
Sickofhim
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"out of the ordinary"

Feb 16 - 7AM (Reply to #5)
leslieisback
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lol

Feb 16 - 7AM (Reply to #6)
Sickofhim
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Oh it's an addiction for sure...

Feb 17 - 11AM (Reply to #26)
tootsgee
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its the strangest thing that

Feb 16 - 8AM (Reply to #7)
leslieisback
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soh

Feb 16 - 8AM (Reply to #8)
Sickofhim
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Yes, the whole experience is

Feb 16 - 8AM (Reply to #9)
leslieisback
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Yes!

Feb 16 - 9AM (Reply to #10)
Sickofhim
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Haha

Feb 16 - 4PM (Reply to #11)
leslieisback
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Yes,

Feb 17 - 7AM (Reply to #12)
Sickofhim
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7 hrs....wow!!!!! I think 5

Feb 17 - 8AM (Reply to #13)
leslieisback
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Agreed!

Feb 17 - 10AM (Reply to #14)
Sickofhim
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You sound like u are doing so

Feb 17 - 11AM (Reply to #15)
leslieisback
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I too am only 3 weeks NC. I

Feb 17 - 12PM (Reply to #16)
Sickofhim
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Your strength is

Feb 17 - 12PM (Reply to #17)
leslieisback
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My XN is the one who blocked

Feb 17 - 12PM (Reply to #18)
Sickofhim
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GOOD RIDDANCE! U deserve so

Feb 17 - 12PM (Reply to #19)
leslieisback
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Thank you! I think he is a

Feb 17 - 12PM (Reply to #20)
Sickofhim
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Lol.

Feb 17 - 1PM (Reply to #21)
leslieisback
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Oh yes! I have so many they

Feb 17 - 4PM (Reply to #22)
Sickofhim
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Post them anytime. Love to