what NEVER ceases to Amaze ME
what NEVER ceases to Amaze ME
Is how right from the getgo, these men are able to present themselves as" normal" human beings. i remember very early on talking with my Ex, Narc, we were driving, can not remember the context, but anyway I said something about empathy rearing its head again and he said "I have empathy", meaning himself and just the way he said it, it was like he knew the meaning of the word in a dictionary but never fully understood the word.Now i understand what people say about those with NPD, they have had to learn to mimic normal peoples behavior. Like he use to say he loved me after I said it to him, over the phone, but it sounded robotic, like he had to say it,no real feeling.After all these years I always wondered how he was able to navigate through life. Also i remember making"small talk" to a realtor we were looking at homes with, and after wards he said to me,"why did you make small talk to the fellow, it is a waste of time." So patiently I said to him, that is what greases the wheel and makes the world go around. He was someone who did not understand the nuiances of life. Did you all feel the same way?
small talk
Yes
big fakers
momoya
Bipolar
Yes!
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