Whats up with Erectile Dysfunction
Whats up with Erectile Dysfunction
I tried to find something on erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation and the narcissist on the internet to post but i drew a blank . ED seems to be a running theme in many of our narc relationships and so many time the question comes up on what causes it .
From what i can gather the problem is four fold
1, The narc can not maintain an erection due to sexual exhaustion either by bed hopping with different lovers or excessive masterbation to porn , he is so worn out he would rather have a cup of tea .
2,After the honeymoon period he has absolutely no intrest in your satisfaction what so ever , sex becomes a chore and he sees it a maintenance to keep hold of his narcissict supply , this can cause premature ejaculation or ED
3,He has a fundamental fear of intimacy on a deep subconscious level so he prematurly ejaculates in order to avoid closness with you .This is found in the honeymoon period as well as all other times and its a huge red flag for the future .
4, Witholding sex as a passive agressive form of punishment which can result in both PE or ED .
Im sure there are other reason for ED and PE maybe we can open a discussion about it (keep it clean ladies lol), again we seem to be leading the way on this subject as there is very little information on it .
The one certain with all narcs is at some point or other they will blame their partner for their inability to perform sexualy , suprise suprise ..
Big love Scoop xx
What's up with ED? Nothing
Good one
I think we`re overlooking something
Tigerlilly, I totally agree!
I think we`re overlooking something
ED
Ok with our sex life
sex
No PD!
Was never a problem for years, like rabbits in fact
Hmm! Interesting!
hey scoop
I was sooo in love it didn't matter that he couldn't get it up
FarmGirl
It's interesting - I never
My XN had ED problems from the beginning
weirdness...
gypsii
Thanks scoop
Thanks scoop
I remember Sam Vaknin said