I got this remark from a friend today.
It begin with her asking why i split up with narcky. I just said he's not treating me right like sudden disappearing (ST), devalue me etc. She frowned and said "huh? U left him because of this? What's so pitiful about u? There are millions of battered women"
I am so used to hearing stuff like this. They are clueless to NPD emotional abuse. I know many of us will face people like this somewhere down the road. I know it hurts, just ignore them. Dont let them affect u. Come here to talk and vent. This place is a healing heaven.