"Why did you stay with him for so long?"

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#1 Feb 20 - 11PM
solidground
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"Why did you stay with him for so long?"

My friend asked me that today. Have you ever been asked that before? How did you respond? I have to admit, I felt a little offended... maybe 'cuz the implicit message behind that question is "What's wrong with you?? Why did you get yourself into that situation?" and that's really not the right way to approach the situation at all.

Feb 21 - 7PM
Not your blow u...
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I hope your friend asked you

Feb 21 - 4PM
knighty2035
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This question required some real honesty from me

Feb 21 - 12PM
brinamarie
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My therapist asked me this a

Feb 21 - 12PM
Tori
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Solidground, asking yourself

Feb 21 - 12PM (Reply to #13)
talktothehand
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Tori

Feb 21 - 9AM
spinning
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solid, honeypie!!!

spinning

Feb 21 - 8AM
Portia
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Don't take offense, it is an opportunity.

Feb 21 - 9AM (Reply to #9)
terri
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I was with the exN for 10

Believe in yourself!
Terri

Feb 21 - 1PM (Reply to #10)
mystwoman
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This is all SO true.

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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.

Feb 21 - 7AM
Janie53
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Solid ground

Feb 21 - 7AM
Garden
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"I was conned"

Feb 21 - 4AM
Mina
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Tell your friend to google:

Feb 20 - 11PM
leslieisback
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Only someone who hadn't lived

Feb 20 - 11PM (Reply to #2)
solidground
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Right?! Ugh.

Feb 20 - 11PM (Reply to #3)
leslieisback
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You have to live through it

Feb 21 - 12AM (Reply to #4)
lucero77
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theirs no awnser