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#1 Jan 21 - 8AM
BAW
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Wish me luck!

Have to see the N today after 8 months for hopefully step 1 of 2 to getting divorced. I have not felt this level of agitation in forever. I just have to keep reminding myself it's the beginning of the end.

Its amazing how he's deluding himself, sending me texts like "I'll be so happy to see you (tears)" while for me, the thought of seeing him makes me nauseous.

Sigh. Almost done!

Jan 24 - 4PM
BAW
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Update:

This went better than I ever could have expected! He agreed to everything with the lawyers and kept up this fake almost crying state the whole time. I was worried that I may feel bad for him or something, but I felt nothing. All I could think was "this is the pathetic person I was married to?" Yay! Quote of the day: "When I break up with OW, can we be friends?" Boy, she really has a winner there, huh? ;)
Jan 24 - 6PM (Reply to #4)
ally2375
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BAW

I'm so happy for you! I aspire to be indifferent. Good for you! I'm glad you will soon be putting this chapter behind you. Only good things to come! Your quote is priceless. :-) Hugs, Ally
Jan 21 - 8AM
victimnomore
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Baw

I wish you luck. I haven't even started my divorce yet because I feel that I am not strong enough yet and I don't want to see him. I need at least 12 months of not seeing or talking to him to get to the divorce step. Can't wait until i'm done!

victimnomore

Jan 21 - 8AM
Happy1
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BAW

Best of luck! I'm sorry you have to see him but hopefully it's painless for you and quick. Like ripping off a band-aid I hope. Happy1