WORDS OF WISDOM TO SHARE
WORDS OF WISDOM TO SHARE
It has been a long time my recovering friends since I have posted on this site. I periodically follow your progress and am always so pleased when I read that someone has reached the other side.
In order to free yourself from the power of a psychopathic bond you must allow the illusion of what he appeared to you as to DIE; you must see the reality of what he is and what he will always be and recognize this person suffers from a Cluster B personality disorder. Whatever betrayal pain and destruction he brought into your life was because he is inflicted with this disorder and he only pursued you and all your wonderful glory to only feed this disorder.
With a psychopath you cannot win by expressing your anger at the callous and or complete emotionless disregard for the impact he had on your life. They do not know, cannot comprehend, and they do not care on any emotional level whatsoever. They feed off your emotional energy whether it is love or anger you express. It has always been and forever will be all about them and their perceived needs at any given moment. Psychopaths will not feel remorse, regret, and sadness after you vent to them; neither will they reflect on what you have said and empathize with you. Jekyll was a persona; and they will drop the persona and you with it once you begin to see through their mask.
Someone once stated: "A encounter with a psychopath plants the seed to our salvation" In all my research, education and through my personal journey to recovery I have never read anything quite so inspirational and true as that statement. For truly our salvation from such an experience is to save ourselves from harm, risk, loss and deliverance from the power and penalty of sin; morally and ethically.
Imagine a world without love, never knowing what it feels like to love and care for someone; in all its bitter sweetness- love is the emotion that we are here for. Imagine never being capable of a personal narrative, a personal story that charts our growth towards being more than what we are- by that I mean the wisdom that our own weaknesses, vulnerabilities, faults, and flaws that moves and pushes us towards knowing ourselves better.
In my personal recovery this has been MY salvation and it saved me from further destruction by a psychopath. My salvation has brought me to a place of serenity and the great wisdom to know the difference.
Beautiful TRUTH.
Excellent!! Miss you Hunter
NLB
Thank God for the ability to feel
Not living life
Nobody loved me..
Dearest artist