YOU THOUGHT WRONG

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#1 Jan 4 - 9AM
I_am_free
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YOU THOUGHT WRONG

You thought you had me
You thought you could control me
You thought you could use me
You thought you could hurt me
You thought I was hopeless without you
You thought you could inflict pain and abuse on me
You thought you could cause suffering to me
You thought you won when you saw me cry
You thought my life would always revolve around you
You thought you could take away my dignity
You thought I could not survive without you

Lastly, You thought you had won but what you dont realise devil Narc is that if you look closely...there is ME in all those statements and alot of the sentences ends with ME. It might have started with you but in the end...it still ends with ME...ME...ME. ME getting my life back because you did not destroy it...you just affected a part of it and it is still MY LIFE and I am in control on ME.

So off you go devil....because this ME is in control and you are no longer welcome in MY WORLD

TO all those ladies out there...when days are dark and you feel blue..just remember there is always light at the end of the tunnel and you are still in control of all your feelings. Only you can decide what feeling you wish to feel...take control and stand tall!

MWAH

Jan 4 - 4PM
mystwoman
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Big high fives to you!!!!

Big high fives to you!!!! Great post!!!!

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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.

Jan 4 - 3PM
NarcJunkie
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Here's what a guy friend had to say about the narc

referring to both his character and his posh new outfit featuring ultra-tight pants: "He thinks he is wearing a nice suit, but everyone can see his dick."
Jan 4 - 12PM
I_am_free
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Thanks Goldie! Will try to

Thanks Goldie! Will try to put it there...lets pray I do it right. Hunter...hahahahahahhahaa!! Good one..if you think about it most Narc's are not good looking..its their incredible charm and word magic which makes them attractive.
Jan 4 - 12PM
Goldie
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Nice empowering poem

I love it and can completely relate to this. This will be a great addition to our favorite's section. If you would like to put it over there as well or I can do it if you want and then more will be able to read it when they join the site. God bless, Goldie Also anyone else please feel free to add your recovery work there as well. I think it helps newcomers to see that there is hope and a way out, once they too become empowered to end this.
Jan 4 - 12PM
Hunter
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Ok my turn.. You thought??

Ok my turn.. You thought?? Not sure you had a brain.. Nope you didnt think at all.. Hunter
Jan 4 - 12PM
I_am_free
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Lol Sparrow...very unique

Lol Sparrow...very unique one! My Narc thought he was Gods gift to woman and yet I want to finaly tell him I fell for his charm and sweet words NOT his looks..
Jan 4 - 12PM (Reply to #10)
HardToBelieve
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You know..

If it wasn't for my narc's designer clothes he wasn't really all that attractive.. I remember seeing one of his friends and I thought I'd much rather be dating his friend. He had reason to be jealous for sure, lool. He knew he was less attractive and he knew I was out of his league..
Jan 4 - 11AM
Sparrow
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"You thought you brought me

"You thought you brought me to an orgasm" is all that comes to mind at this moment......
Jan 4 - 12PM (Reply to #8)
Hunter
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Sparrow

Teehee!
Jan 4 - 11AM (Reply to #7)
spinning
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LOLOLOL SPARROW!!!!

That one goes on my list, too!!!! xoxox (not) spinning. JUST GRINNING AT THE BRILLIANCE OF THIS THREAD!!

spinning

Jan 4 - 11AM
I_am_free
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feel free to add ladies!

I love the additions!! Feels energising and powerful...how wrong they (narc) were to think they had the final say!
Jan 4 - 10AM
HardToBelieve
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May I add?

You thought you could read my mind - you were WRONG! You thought you were the only one who always thought 5 steps ahead - you were WRONG! You thought you were the only one who could analyze people - you were WRONG! You thought I would come back and change my mind after I broke up with you - you were WRONG! You thought you could make me dependent on you - you were WRONG! You thought I was going to give up my family & friends for you - you were WRONG! You thought I was going to quit my work to devote my life for you - you were WRONG! You thought you were the best I had ever had - you were WRONG! You thought no other man would want me - you were WRONG!
Jan 4 - 11AM (Reply to #4)
spinning
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Great Post I-a,-free, and I'm going to add:

YOU THOUGHT YOU COULD TAKE ME DOWN. YOU WERE WRONG! YOU THOUGHT YOU WOULD DESTROY ME. YOU WERE WRONG! YOU THOUGHT I'D CONTINUE THE CHASE. YOU WERE WRONG! YOU THOUGHT YOU WERE EVERYTHING IN MY LIFE. YOU WERE WAY, WAY WRONG!! Thanks for this empowering post, I-am-free. Isn't freedom bliss???!!! xoxo (not) spinning. BECAUSE I CHOOSE NOT TO!

spinning

Jan 4 - 9AM
I_am_free
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Thank You Hunter :)

Thank You Hunter :)
Jan 4 - 9AM
Hunter
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Positive thinking..

Positive thinking.. Excellent. Hunter