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You were all right, He texted me this morning

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#1 Nov 30 - 1AM
jen79
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You were all right, He texted me this morning

So much for my prediction, to be honest I couldnt sleep all night, I was reading like hell about angels, and somehow it brought me again into another state of mind, I felt happy and extatic, and I had some goosebump moments.

And it the exact moment, when I thought, wow look at you, you have so much energy again, feeling so great, usually thats when he texts you again - and bham...there is came, in this exact second I had this thought.

So much for the psychic cord thing.

I need this app.

Nov 30 - 10AM
gettinbetter
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the psychic cord thing

When I started to goolge the psychic cord thing. I mean the minute I hit send I. Got an email from him albeit by proxy as it was from someone who hacked in to his email. Anyway it was like he was saying don't you cut me off I'm going to stay in your head So a few days later I was contining to read an it said when you cut the chord they or yo will try to re attach. I know everyone doesn't buy it but for me there is some truth in. Therew are times I have felt him talking to me in my head. Almost immediately after I started chord cutting my health improved
Nov 30 - 1PM (Reply to #13)
blueeyes
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?

Shall I check this? SOI, I can't.... :(
Nov 30 - 2PM (Reply to #14)
gettinbetter
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You can't what?

You can't what?
Nov 30 - 3PM (Reply to #15)
blueeyes
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I can't seem

to bring myself to google this and look into it. I am looking for what to do to make me feel better and everything seems like "eh, nah." lol I am in a cocoon my friends tell me. Oh well. I like it here for now. My humor and fun is sucked out for the time being. It make bounce back soon, one never knows in this shit mess, ya know?
Nov 30 - 3PM (Reply to #16)
gettinbetter
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yeah

its comfy here but I have been slowly trying to get back to friends thought Im not their yet
Nov 30 - 11AM (Reply to #2)
jen79
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sick of it

ok you got me now. Where is this post of yours again from this psychic chord cutting. I will do it today. Please post the link. I will check in later again, I am about to colour my hair back to brown, to my original hair coulour, I am done with the fake blond, I am done with all the fake.
Nov 30 - 11AM (Reply to #3)
gettinbetter
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jen

I will find it tonite and post. It doesn't occur for everyone but I read it is quite common in narc relationships. I also think in my case it has something to with distance as he has been in my head far worse this time than when I was with him years ago. Funny thing is when I started doing doing the meditation I puked and felt a little dizzy. So I googled physical symptoms from psychic chord cutting and there it was in black and white that some people may experience nausea and dizziness. I am not making this up! A couple of days later the sickness behind my eyes was gone.
Nov 30 - 11AM (Reply to #4)
jen79
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I believe you

I do think, when we have long distance with them, the chord thing is even worse, since we HAVE to develop it, since we tried so much to stay in touch with them, didnt we. My psychic abilities have evolved since this time like crazy, I know, he can senxe when I have energy again, and when I am about to move on, he always sensed it. Since they live from our energy, they have amazing radar as well, what is going on.
Nov 30 - 11AM (Reply to #12)
truetotruth
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I believe too

On Saturday just passed....I was awake and I felt hope for the first time in 2 years...I was not afraid that I would not survive this.....BAM He called 3 hours later blocked number to my work cell. I said to my bestie that everytime I start to stand up..its like he knows somehow and comes back to kick me down. Most people think its being over dramatic. I know better. I just made it by 6 days out of the old apartment and into my new condo. 6 days...I know he must have been outside my place cause he was calling demanding I go for coffee with him and give HIM closure!!!!
Nov 30 - 11AM (Reply to #5)
gettinbetter
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jen

I am anxious for you to try it. Its not a cure all but has definitely has helped with the physical symptoms. I have to tell you if someone told me this stuff before I would have said BS. But there is something to it. I don't understand it all but this guy has popped in and out of my life for twenty years. I read they can attach to you or it could be me throwing a chord to him. Either its gotta be cut. I also read that when you are feeling down blaming yourself. That it is them trying to re attach. It is also more common the deeper the trauma. Its all really related to the trauma bond
Nov 30 - 11AM (Reply to #6)
jen79
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sick of it

Why are you anxious about me trying it?
Nov 30 - 11AM (Reply to #7)
gettinbetter
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Because I want to see if it

Because I want to see if it works for anyone else. Oh and I also read it is quite common among empaths. If you google you will find info and different methods I'm still sad I still have obsessive thoughts but I don't feel like I'm being poisioned
Nov 30 - 12PM (Reply to #8)
jen79
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even if it doesnt work for me

doesnt mean it was all nonesense for you. This cutting chord thing, as I understand it, is an inner journey, and inner process, so when it worked for YOU, it worked for you, period. If it works for me, then because I was ready for it, I think my success or not success in this, wont deminish your experience. Its all yours. We create our own reality. Everyone for themselves.
Nov 30 - 12PM (Reply to #9)
gettinbetter
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yes

Your mind is powerful so if in your mind it works then it works whether there is anything scientific to back it up or not. I just know I experienced an ill feeling that I didn't have round one. I have always felt some kinda weird connection to him that I could never explain. A lot of weird coincidences too
Nov 30 - 1PM (Reply to #10)
jen79
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Sick of it

Scientific will back in up one day, quantum physics does it already. We are all connected, I think, we as being empaths have a hard time to ignore strong emotions from others. Once we connected to them, and care about how they feel, and feel about us, we start to absorb every shit. In quantum physics they already say the observer created the reality, and that there is non locality, that means, objects that seems to be disconnected, no matter how far they are away from each other, stay connected. I think when we cutt the chord, its a shift in our focus. Therefore we start to align again with our true self.
Nov 30 - 1PM (Reply to #11)
Susan32
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Absorbing the drama

The past 2 years, I've no longer been in that Narc workplace/hellhole. It aggravated whatever PTSD I already had. I was used to the negativity. When I started at my new job, I was hyper-sensitive. I have to credit my boss for being caring... I wasn't going to get into all the dirty details of the previous job, but she was understanding and compassionate. When she called herself a b*tch, I wanted to tell her "Meet my former boss. You're a saint compared to him." I'm more relaxed and more at peace now. I can also come to terms with the past. At my previous job, there was LOTS of negativity and narcissism.