YOU WERE HANDED ONE OF THE GREATEST GIFTS LIFE HAS TO OFFER IN THE FORM OF A NARC"

What a profound and beautiful statement that I have quoted from Tresor, that I felt compelled to post.

This statement applies to my own discoveries as well, and with that said consider the following:

I want you to USE HIM as he used you!!! It's ok he wont mind and he wont care. Use his disorder as a personal awareness to everything we would never want to be. Grab the mirror he held for you and let him look in it. Let him see what HE is. Let him devalue, degrade, project, gas light and lie to himself - all the psychological things he once did to you - IF he could see himself, what do you think would happen? I know what your thinking; that a narcissist already only sees himself - WRONG - they only see a reflection of a false self.- they have no capacity to truly reflect on their inner selves. In order to achieve this they create illusions with others in their lives - only THEN will you see in the purest form who they really are. YOU are their identity so to speak; they are collectors and predators of our humanity.

So where is the "gift" in all this I have asked myself; as he is off with someone else and/or others - he needed me more than I EVER needed him and in truth he needs the others more than they will ever need him; they just dont know it yet. How can you need someone that basically only exists through others? He is an accumulation and conglomeration of a million others that feed him - because when he looks in the mirror he sees NOTHING, only a reflection of a false self.