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You'll be so proud! I changed my email!

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#1 Jan 18 - 8PM
abreva
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You'll be so proud! I changed my email!

Gravity gave me great advice - to change my email.

And I was like NO I can't because I have to be in contact due to custody.

Then I thought - wait - I CAN change my email.

I made an account ONLY for HIM.
It's not a nice sweet email address - it has a professional edge to it.

And I will check it ONCE a day.
And he won't intrude in my
PRIVATE
wonderful
juicy
beautiful
sweet
flowy
free-of-him
gorgeous
feminine
pink
satin
sunlight
heavenly
loving
healthy
happy
LIFE.

And if he DOES email me at MY real email address - I can IGNORE it.

Thank you Gravity for the advice.

I'll let you know how it pans out.

Jan 19 - 8PM
abreva
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WORKING FABULOUSLY!!!!

Oh My Gosh! The new email address thing is WORKING GREAT!!!! Yes, he ranted like a crazy man nearly 800 words over NOTHING. But the email is NOT in my real account. Everytime I check my REAL account for my life business I DON'T have to see his horrible lurking email and name just WAITING for me, and pressing me. I check the for-psychopath-only email address ONE TIME ONLY per day. I have to be in contact due to custody issues. My 48 hr cushion for response time works too! I write the email right away and there it sits til the 48 hr time is up - Delaying the conversation BACK AND FORTH. So, if he writes me crazy non-sense at 11pm on Monday. And I check it at 9am Tuesday. I don't have to mail it til 9am Thursday. Then I don't have to check email til FRIDAY! BA hahahahahah! Thank you SO much to Gravity for the suggestion to change the email address. Fabulous. We can REALLY help each other here!
Jan 18 - 9PM
Goldie
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Great job Abreva

Keep him out of your safe space. Love it!!! God bless, Goldie
Jan 18 - 9PM
fallingfoward
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Good for you.

That's a great idea!!!!! Thanks for sharing. Hugs
Jan 18 - 9PM
Hope
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Good job...

I want to read the book when it comes out...sounds very interesting, stay safe. How old are the kids? Hopefully he will move onto a new target soon. Hang in there. Best of luck, Hope.