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#1 Mar 31 - 2PM
Mariline's picture

oh no!

I had suscribed to an email notification of all the new posts in a blog I am following.
Today I checked. There were new posts-I never got the notifications.

I have learned now. These are THE signs.....He is again in my email.
Again. For the third time. For the ones of you who know my story....the third time.

But I do not want to become paranoid because of him. Even if he closes everything once again. Even if he blocks again my email account and my facebook account. I will not allow him to steal me again anything.

And now I leave you with the excerpts from the blog I was talking about. Read these words and learn them.

I'll close with this quote from Atlas Shrugged. Supposedly it is bad form to quote from Atlas Shrugged on blogs because Ayn Rand can't say anything that doesn't require reams of pages for context, but I think this quote does stand on its own because of what we understand here about the nature of evil:

The last of my words will be addressed to those heroes who might still be hidden in the world, those who are held prisoner, not by their evasions, but by their virtues and their desperate courage. My brothers in spirit, check on your virtues and on the nature of the enemies you're serving. Your destroyers hold you by means of your endurance, your generosity, your innocence, your love --the endurance that carries their burdens-- the generosity that responds to their cries of despair--the innocence that is unable to conceive of their evil and gives them the benefit of every doubt, refusing to condemn them without understanding and incapable of understanding such motives as theirs...life is the object of their hatred. Leave them to the death they worship...don't exhaust the greatness of your soul on achieving the triumph of the evil of theirs...

...to win requires your total dedication and a total break with the world of your past, with the doctrine that man is a sacrificial animal who exists for the pleasure of others. Fight for the value of your person...

(from Narcissists suck by Anna Valerious)

Mar 31 - 8PM
Lisa E. Scott
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Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear this! Barbara - thanks for the good advice you offered. Mariline - you should take every precaution Barbara recommends to protect yourself from this man. It is horrible what he is doing to you. He can't stand the fact that he no longer can control your thoughts and feelings so he hacks into your computer to have some type of control. Sick man! Hang in there! I like the Ayn Rand quote.
Mar 31 - 7PM
Barbara (not verified)
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oh no....

Yeah, I have some moron cyberstalker on me lately who I don't know and never met but seems to know all about me. My computer was hacked by psycho-boy's friends a while back and one of my email accounts phished so god knows who has the information. 1. Change all your passwords to something he does NOT KNOW. (you may even want to get a new email. copy all your contacts to a word file - then get a new accounton something like gmail that hides your IP - and then write all your friends. Use a name he WON'T KNOW - make it GENDER NEUTRAL and never ever use your real name or a derivation. And never ever put photos of yourself or kids ONLINE! EVER!!) 2. Call your provider and tell them you want your IP number changed and ask them how to do it. Tell them you have a cyberstalker (don't need to say more) 3. Firewall - put the settings up to HIGH 4. download Spybot Search & Destroy (free) http://www.safer-networking.org/en/mirrors/index.html (a number of sites to download it from are here) RUN IT DAILY 5. Facebook, MySpace, Twitter - etc are breeding grounds for stalkers and backdoors to your computer. Either make your information "by approval only" or delete the account all together. 6. check everything daily! turn your computer off overnight. Run a Disk Defragmentor (in your system tools file) once a week on your C: drive. 7. any hard proof you have that he may be in your computer - write to HIS internet provider with his email etc. And BLOCK his emails and IMs!!! simply having someone on your email or instant messaging - can allow them access to your WHOLE COMPUTER. Read this: http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/2009/03/im.html You might also want to go to downloads.com or cnet.com (downloads area) and search for free/ Freeware that blocks spyware, cleans spyware & malware and blocks & cleans keyloggers. Download them and run them daily. ~~~~~~~~ "Pathologicals only discard the best, the most precious of gems of people... not the worst. They keep fellow abusers, gossips & enabling lackeys close. They despise the principled & honest. Their discarding of you is then their highest commendation!" - A. Valerious
Mar 31 - 10PM (Reply to #2)
cassiemay's picture

oh no

Shit, this is really scaring me because I feel the same thing has happened to me on This site. I look through new posts and there are several that I KNOW I haven't read, but not posted as new. Hmmmm.. Scary shit. CM