DId you ex admit to you he has a problem?
DId you ex admit to you he has a problem?
Mine did, and I find sometimes I would reach out to try and help him, but now I wonder , did he just say those things, when I was getting at the truth.
Thinking back, I think he did.
He would say....I know I have issues, and I don't want to be like my father. I know I have a problem with how mum treated me.
But.......bascially he never did anything about it.
He would say it, and then that was that, then change the subject.
In the meantime, I have gone all soft and gooey, and want to help him.....
.
Was that his intention?
To just hook me in again, go soft and gooey and be submissive?
To feel sorry for him and back off?
To see the sad face and have pity?
Hmmmmm........
I guess I will never know for sure......but now I do wonder.
Has anyone else experienced that sort of talk from their ex?
I have a feeling that you might say YES!!!!
I guess Lisa would say ..........that it is a common trait of theirs.
Boy, do I feel stupid!!!!!
....etc... :(
Yup, 2nd or 3rd hoover attempt
Lisa..
Baking
Lisa...
This is just like mine! He
yes
good one
onwithmylife,
Yes
Yes in the begining he told
My ex narc never once
Sometimes he has said he is a
admit a problem?
I wonder what it is with them
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Mine
Mine admitted it
Reddley
Narcs have 'moments of clarity"
michelle
Never, never
mine said all the women in his life said he was "mean"
it was weird
In a word, yes.
Journey on...
yeah
No, he presented his issues
Also, he "doesn't like
Cindy
The only thing he ever said
They say things to have a way