Silent Treatment
Silent Treatment
I was cleaning out my desk this morning and came across a calendar that I had kept when I first discovered what the "silent treatment" was and started to track the occurrences with narc #2. I haven't looked at that calendar in months! I was reminded this morning of the abuse I endured with him from so many miles away. There was at one point on this calendar where within a 173 day time frame, he gave me the silent treatment for 86 days total. Of course not 86 days in a row, but sporadically. He PUNISHED me for 86 days!! It seems inconceivable today, but back than.............I gave him that power, me, and only me. Not any more though. Never will I give him or any other man the ability to mistreat me that way. 86 days of my life that I will never get back, and that was only in one time block, if I had to look back and do the math over the course of that year, goodness knows how much more time he robbed from me, I shutter to think.
Thinking about it though, I am free of him, never to want or need from him again. So, 86 days wasn't a bad trade off when I look at all the beautiful days I have had since, and all the beautiful days that I have ahead of me!
My friends and I are in the process of making our own wine and we are trying to come up with a name for the wine label. I am going to name mine "86 Days" and I will drink that wine when it is ready, and I will savor every drop of it with the people in my life that love me, and value me.
86 days..................awesome!
purpose of ST
You can call it "S.S. NR 86"
I made mine break the "Silent Treatment"
Dear lord, Just reading this
Oh yes the silent treatment.
Gettingbetter
calendar
Swan
hold the praise Sparrow
No whining!! 86 Days great
Hunter
Cheers Sparrow
UK
By myself
Prideandshame
silent treatment
Runy01
Good for you Ruby!
dcrmp
Silent Punishment-wow, I
U go gal!!
Sea
I can kick myself.......
Layla
I feel kinda dumb on the