Not every man is a Narc
Not every man is a Narc
Wow! I just learned this today. I met a really nice
guy and considered dating. We had a lot in common, although he was not a mirror image of me.
After several quite enjoyable conversations and several invitations to dinner, he finally told me that he felt we probably weren't going anywhere with this and he was really interested in moving forward and wanted to know how I felt.
I liked him a lot, but I stalled at every turn....why? Because I was waiting for the narc to show up. I listened to every word waiting for arrogance, braging or an insult to slip out. I waited for him to talk bad about his ex-wife and talk all about himself. Guess what...none of that happened.
As disappointed as I am that I probably lost a really great guy, I'm really happy because I broke through that barrier. I truely believed that all men my age were narcs.
That isn't true and it is a great relief because I don't have to look at every man waiting for that aha moment to prove he is a narc too.
I will still keep my guard up, but it feels good to have actually seen a real nice guy and know that they really do exist. Thanks for the vent guys!
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