Why don't we fall in love with other empaths?
Why don't we fall in love with other empaths?
Ok, I get it why we attract narcs but it's not that nice and genuine and empathetic guys/gals are never attracted to us right? Is it because the narcs are just naturally better predators and sweep us off our feet before the others even muster up the courage to say hi?
I have spent most of last summer with a male friend of mine and the more time we spent together the more I felt attracted to him because I realized that he's great company, has real interests, is sensitive and smart, doesn't hide his bad side or weaknesses, doesn't fake to be the perfect mate etc.
But he never made a move, and since there is a major incompatibility and I am now listening to my red flags I never pushed it either.
Well, recently he confessed to me that he thought we'd be good together and got almost angry that I didn't want to be with him. He said: See? When a nice guy comes along, you push him away.
But I didn't push him away! I was there all that time. He never made a move. And maybe that's old-fashioned but yes, I'd like a guy to "claim" me as his woman... to at least show me he wants me.
The only reason Narc-Boy got me because he totally went in for the kill before I ever had the chance to actually get to know him.
I'd love to hear your opinions on this. Anyone have any experience dating non-narcs?
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Wow, I love this response --
Yeah...
Maybe
because....
It's true
Good Question!
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Greengirl
Thank you Rose. I believe you
What you wrote really resonates with me, greengirl
NJunkie, from what I have
Wow, yes, excellent question!
Well yeah
Just my experience