So, you are the narcissists new woman...
So, you are the narcissists new woman...
So, it looks like you bagged yourself a real winner. He's funny, witty, charming, and successful. He tells you how special you are, which is great to know as all his exes were psycho bitches. It's so sad the story of his abused past with one bad relationship after another. Life just hasn't been fair to him.
But, oh, you are different, so special, unlike any woman he has ever had. And boy were those past women bad! They took advantage of him, cleaned out his bank account, possibly ruined his credit. And they were all cheaters, too. Sadly, even their children were monsters.
So, thankfully, you are good and pure and he is so happy to have found you. You feel the exhilarating, delightful fireworks of a perfect new love. God has answered your prayers! Your life feels so magical, so fairytale-come-true perfect.
And you are so happy to have found him, too. Why, it's almost nearly impossible to find anything wrong with him, and even more impossible to believe that any woman would have done him so wrong. What fools they must have been!
He treats you well. He amuses you with tales of his glorified past. He charms you and your friends. You are walking on air! Giddy with this newfound perfect man and falling in love for he is just so irresistible to not love! You couldn't possibly find anything wrong with this wonderful man put on display in front of you.
Right now you are feeding his hungry ego. The rush you create in him is a positive one and it makes him delirious with his power over you.
And you just can't understand why those women would ever have let go of such a wonderful man. But, of course, he wasn't happy with any of them - in fact, he was miserable. He was just ... waiting ... waiting for someone as wonderful and as special as you to come along.
And you sit in compassionate awe as he tells you horror stories of the abuse he suffered. And maybe you will run into one of these women from his past, and maybe he will point her out, and maybe you will glare at her...how dare she hurt such a wonderful and godly man?!
And she will look back at you, and you see a look in her eyes...maybe you won't recognize that look because you never saw it before. Is she jealous, or is she possibly that evil - like he said - that you just didn't recognize the evil when you saw it as you never experienced anything that evil before?
No, it's not an evil look in her eyes. You don't think it's jealousy, either. You just can't put your finger on it.
Wait, maybe it's the look of ... the look of defeating compassion and helplessness. Yes, that's it! His ex looks at you with helplessness.
Someday you will understand. But not today.
Just ran in to OW after nearly three years
Good One, A Must Read
Nothing short of amazing.
WOW...powerful...
LML
Right now
This is EXACTLY
I now remember , 15 years ago
You bet
Pumpkin
Amazeballs!
I'm laughing too, ICB
OMG how true
I can't help but wonder
Reason he will say ANYTHING
pity party
Loser Free
Reason I don't know about
yes...we all came to understand. OUCH !
SO YOU ARE THE PSYCHOPATHS NEW WOMAN
so true
Ya is great .. Please
It's from a great site.
EXACTLY! Its so unbelievably
Emma, I don't post much, but
I do wish this was my work
spot on..
exactly...
I wish I found this a year ago.....