Why Does He ALWAYS Win?
Why Does He ALWAYS Win?
I am feeling so discouraged! I was proud of myself for leaving, I had no desire at all for contact. I never allow him access to me so he can't manipulate. I don't miss him at all, BUT....I feel like he is stealing the hearts and souls of my children from me! Every time I turn around he is doing something special with them! They are 25, 23, 21, 20 and 16 yrs old. Only the 16 yr old is at home, joint custody. So ok, he has the family home and 90% of our possesions, thats not enough, he takes all the childrens time! He never cared to do stuff with them before unless it was something he wanted and chose and planned. Now all the sudden he is interested in everything they do and planning trips with them, etc. I feel like he has everything and I have nothing!!! I dont have the money, or the time off work like he does to compete! He turns on his narc charm and gets to act like the good guy, the poor victim! Ugh!! I know my children love me, but I feel like the boring one, the pathetic one! It is so unfair, I can't seem to climb out of this, it brings me so down!
We could be twins
jennifer
I was wondering where you were 'brave little toaster"
same here
Venting
same here
Good time dad
Your children will be treated
Honestly, a lot sometimes of
deidre
Still is difficult!
same here
jennifer
Life of my own
jennifer
Jennifer
Jennifer
Frustrating
couldnt agree with u more Diedre