What scares you about going/maintaining NC?
What scares you about going/maintaining NC?
Piggy backing a bit on done sourcing's thread, about no contact (which is mahvelous!) ... I thought I'd just post a thread here for those of you who have recently broken NC, or fear you are close to doing so, to share why you feel this way. What is it about NC that shakes you? Why do you find it daunting? Why do you want to reach out to your ex N? What do you hope he/she will do for you, after you break NC?
Maybe list what it is that scares you, and that will help you when you're tempted? Just a thought as I see a few folks breaking NC lately, and I did so in the beginning, too. NC is hard in the beginning, but it's hard because we have not resigned ourselves to the fact that the relationship is like a terminal disease--there's no cure for it. There's no hope with a narc, of a friendship, or any other 'ship.' When it's over, we must go NC. (unless you share children/custody)
Hoping this helps you maintain NC!
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Ttth, Dealing with your own
Ego
Ttth, yes! I can't even say
Sometimes
Excellent points, IB. yes,
Thank you for this post D!
lol, yes i wonder how many
diedre-hhahahhaha
yes, it can be hard. you
NTT- if it's any consolation... I was in the same spot today--
Luv ya-FreeMe!
Let's take our wise friend DS's philosophy on step further...
So true Freeme! They do
BeautifulM-
I will hold you to it, too!
Freeme, You got it! I do have
beautiful...you can do
good post D with good questions
NLB- Wow! You said it to the 'T"
NLB, have missed seeing you.
Hey D99
I COULDN'T WAIT FOR NC!!! I
Deidre99
Freeme
Ditto
Invisible
LOVE this, Brina, and so
spinning
hey there...yes, i agree with
This is me 2, i seem to get