I Just Got Hoovered!

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#1 Jan 21 - 12PM
fedup2013
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I Just Got Hoovered!

I was out getting something for lunch and left my cell phone in the car. I came out of the store and saw that he just texted. The reaction I had was not something of fear or that I just couldn't wait to respond back. I actually laughed! Why? Because ALWAYS after every D&D, (sometimes I caused a few of those D&Ds because I knew he was toxic)it was always me who was the one contacting him because I mised him under the guise of saying he forgot something at my house or some reason I tried to make valid at the 4-5 day mark.

I burst out laughing because I saw him last Wed in person and then Thurs he just stopped replying to my texts when I said I burnt my hand on the stove and his reaction to that was "Let me know what's up later." Then causing my own D&D, I said "Just the reaction I expected. Nevermind" and not a peep from him since last Thurs. He could have also not started an argument because my brother was at my house one Sat night 1.5 weeks ago and basically told the exN that if he treated his sister poorly again, there is going to be a problem. And of course he just doesn't care unless it's about him.

The exN did tell me he was going ice fishing on Fri after work through Sunday. Now it's Tuesday and he says and I quote "I'm home. Sick but home." Boohoo! Poor baby! Not! In typical narc fashion there he goes griping about something phyically wrong with him.

If someone claims to love and care for you 1) they will not leave you when something bad happens and 2) just stop contact right out of the blue. What really stuns me about these narcs is just how they do it out of the blue and bam a text today like nothing every happened! It's laughable! Since this is my first hoover after really ignorning him, I now have the power and that my friend is called NO CONTACT!

Day 5 mark and he is wondering where I am and why I'm not chasing him. Damn, it feels good to feel in control of myself and my emotions with my brain instead my heart. Especially when you know how a narc operates and their tactics.

He can stick his hoover where the sun don't shine!!! Bawhahahaha!! LOL!

Jan 21 - 4PM
Hunter
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I just got Hoover today too..

Jan 22 - 12AM (Reply to #16)
fedup2013
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Hi Hunter, Thanks for your

Jan 21 - 1PM
fedup2013
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Thank-you everyone for your

Jan 21 - 1PM (Reply to #13)
Laci423
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fedup

Jan 21 - 1PM (Reply to #14)
fedup2013
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Thank-you Laci. Goldie is

Jan 21 - 1PM
evonjohn
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I agree with everyone else. I

Jan 21 - 12PM
ItsFinallytime
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Please block him

Jan 21 - 12PM
Done sourcing
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"Day 5 mark and he is

Jan 21 - 12PM
Laci423
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While you may not have

Jan 21 - 12PM
lessonlearned
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next step:

Jan 21 - 1PM (Reply to #2)
fedup2013
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Yes, I agree it is a high

Jan 22 - 6PM (Reply to #3)
Abra
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Do Narcs know they are hoovering??

Jan 24 - 2AM (Reply to #4)
fedup2013
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No, they don't love us or

Jan 24 - 9AM (Reply to #5)
Abra
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Thanks for taking some time to break it down : )

Jan 24 - 9AM (Reply to #6)
spinning
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Abra, I like that you

spinning

Jan 24 - 10AM (Reply to #7)
Abra
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Great advice (not) spinning! Thank you!!