I Just Got Hoovered!

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I Just Got Hoovered!

I was out getting something for lunch and left my cell phone in the car. I came out of the store and saw that he just texted. The reaction I had was not something of fear or that I just couldn't wait to respond back. I actually laughed! Why? Because ALWAYS after every D&D, (sometimes I caused a few of those D&Ds because I knew he was toxic)it was always me who was the one contacting him because I mised him under the guise of saying he forgot something at my house or some reason I tried to make valid at the 4-5 day mark.

I burst out laughing because I saw him last Wed in person and then Thurs he just stopped replying to my texts when I said I burnt my hand on the stove and his reaction to that was "Let me know what's up later." Then causing my own D&D, I said "Just the reaction I expected. Nevermind" and not a peep from him since last Thurs. He could have also not started an argument because my brother was at my house one Sat night 1.5 weeks ago and basically told the exN that if he treated his sister poorly again, there is going to be a problem. And of course he just doesn't care unless it's about him.

The exN did tell me he was going ice fishing on Fri after work through Sunday. Now it's Tuesday and he says and I quote "I'm home. Sick but home." Boohoo! Poor baby! Not! In typical narc fashion there he goes griping about something phyically wrong with him.

If someone claims to love and care for you 1) they will not leave you when something bad happens and 2) just stop contact right out of the blue. What really stuns me about these narcs is just how they do it out of the blue and bam a text today like nothing every happened! It's laughable! Since this is my first hoover after really ignorning him, I now have the power and that my friend is called NO CONTACT!

Day 5 mark and he is wondering where I am and why I'm not chasing him. Damn, it feels good to feel in control of myself and my emotions with my brain instead my heart. Especially when you know how a narc operates and their tactics.

He can stick his hoover where the sun don't shine!!! Bawhahahaha!! LOL!

Hunter
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I just got Hoover today too..
fedup2013
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Hi Hunter, Thanks for your
fedup2013
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Thank-you everyone for your
Laci423
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fedup
fedup2013
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Thank-you Laci. Goldie is
evonjohn
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I agree with everyone else. I
ItsFinallytime
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Please block him
Done sourcing
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"Day 5 mark and he is
Laci423
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While you may not have
lessonlearned
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next step:
fedup2013
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Yes, I agree it is a high
Abra
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Do Narcs know they are hoovering??
fedup2013
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No, they don't love us or
Abra
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Thanks for taking some time to break it down : )
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Abra, I like that you

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Abra
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Great advice (not) spinning! Thank you!!