IGNORING HIM? working

So it has been awhile since i have updated my relationship status...Well about 2 weeks was my ex's birthday . The whole day he had told me he was busy with his family with lunch and at his uncles house, well when i talked to his sister she that never happend. So when i confronted him about it he made up this huge long excuses that made no sense. He wanted to go out with his "guy" friends for his bday and not want me to come? Already kinda of fishy. Well he called me once he got home and said he didn't feel good and was just going to go to sleep. Well i drove by his house cause I had a gut feeling about something and i saw a girl walking up there. I jumped out of the car and right away he was deffensive, told me he it was his house and he can do what he wants and to get off his property..but he used a lot more abusive words than that. He told me she was there because she needed a place to stay for the night. This girl is a family friend that he has known for a while, but has not seen in a couple of years. I have met her 1 time. She now works with him. Well he screamed and cussed at me, and yes pushed me and told me to leave. Well the next day he told me we both know where this is going and if i needed anything else from his house. So me and my dad went over there and got my stuff, he was a jerk to my dad also and could tell he was upset my dad was with me. So we went about 3 days without talking and he texted me asking if i wanted to take our dog that we found cause his mom was making him get rid of it. So i picked up the dog, he was civil and pretty nice, but i still could not look him in the eye. HE tried to act liked he cared and gave me hug and said it was nice to see me. Well this was Tuesday, he texted me friday asking how the dog was, i ignored it..then texted me 3 more times and called at 3am. Still ignored him. He texted me last night saying he didn't want it to be like this but my actions made it clear and he is going to be jerk and do his own thing and have doing mine and he said your welcome for the dog i should have gaven her else where but whatever..still ignored him.!! So basically I know ignoring him is the right thing to do...but eventually is he going to come around and realized he messed up with me? I know i shouldn't want him back, i still love him more than anything..i just want to show him I'm in control for once and that for the first time I'm not texting him back when he texts me. Its the hardest thing I have done, but i know if we talk he will bring up an argument, and the only reason why is contacting me is because of the dog??