MAJOR HELP? PLEASE, someone tell me???
MAJOR HELP? PLEASE, someone tell me???
I really need an opinion. I am so at a loss. My HN is home with our newborn (2month old) son today and I am at work. We are at war because we are in counseling and I have STOPPED giving into manipulation and no longer a source of supply. It's been about a month now that we have been really at war. We are in counseling. Well today, I texted him to see how baby is doing? No answer for a whole hour (which is fine but I worry about baby). So the messages went HORRIBLY WRONG...Please follow the texts and tell me what the heck IS HAPPENING since I am new at understanding a narcissist.??PLEASE? Here are messages:
ME: How's the baby?
HIM: Great
ME: He will need med around 3.
HIM: I know, Thank you thou
ME: Ok. I just miss him a lot.
HIM Its okay, I totally understand..... I feel the same way when I'm not with him.
HIM: Hope your day is going good.
HIM: My day just keeps getting better and better! The kids toilet is over flowing and going everywhere non stop! This is so much fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There is at Least an inch of water on the ground and I'm covered with POOP and pee! This is just the best day ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ME: Omg!! Call adam (PLUMBER)! Turn the water off. GEEZ!
HIM: Fu@k a PLUMBER! And by the time he gets here we will finally have the swimming pool we have always wanted..... I have it finally under control, I have to calm and feed the baby then get him to sleep. Then I will go swimming in more Piss and Shit so it will be nice and clean for when u get home. Sound Good?
HIM: I meant get him to sleep, not help.
ME: No! I don't need nice and clean. Don't worry bout me.
Really we should call a plumber?
HIM: A simple thank you was all I was looking for but that would be too much. NO, I have it under control! Go back to work.
ME: What? I am THANKFUL! I don't want you to have to deal with this. I'm trying to think of help is all. I DO NOT want you to do all of this! But thank you!
I was just trying to figure out what to do first. Thank you for cleaning it. What can I do?
ME: I wasn't not thankful. I was just trying to figure out what I can do to help.
HIM: I will take care of it.
ME: Do you understand that I am thankful? So Thank you....
HIM: Welcome
ME: Do you know I'm thankful?
HIM: Honestly, Not at all... So would you mind stop texting me I have a screaming baby I'm trying to settle down before I tackle the flood in the bathroom. Please and Thank you!!!!!
END OF TEXTS...I can't answer because I HAVE NO CLUE HOW TO ANSWER THAT! HELP GIRLS PLEASE??
timmy12boy
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timmy12boy
It sounds like he wants a
wellRed-TY- my oh my? not respond?
You didn't do anything wrong
THAT'S RIGHT!
shaynasmommy?
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shanasmommy? TY!
and be prepeared for further
Prepared for fallout in Therapy
Timmy12boy
LMAO! He is Pathetic
I have never delt w a man
Fishing
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Change...
If this helps...
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timmy12boy
folw up on MAJOR HELP u all gave me today about the TOILET TEXT
Humor can be good
Well my dear timmy12boy, I
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