I will be fine...........

This has been the week from hell for me........didn't start out to be about the N's in my life. However, between the end of a friendship with one of my closets friends due to a ridiculous misunderstanding and than learning from my tax man, that I owe an exhuberant amount of money this year in taxes that I didn't see coming, I was still standing.

Yesterday, I received an email through work from my ex-husband N, remember him? He sent me the song by Adele "Someone like you". Today, I learned that he is on a plane heading to, more than likely an exotic destination, to marry and honeymoon the OW. I imagine by the song choice, it was his last D & D. Or at least will hope it is.

"Someone Like You"

I heard that you're settled down
That you found a girl and you're married now.
I heard that your dreams came true.
Guess she gave you things I didn't give to you.

Old friend, why are you so shy?
Ain't like you to hold back or hide from the light.

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited
But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it.
I had hoped you'd see my face and that you'd be reminded
That for me it isn't over.

Never mind, I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
Don't forget me, I beg
I remember you said,
"Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead,
Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, "
Yeah

You know how the time flies
Only yesterday was the time of our lives
We were born and raised
In a summer haze
Bound by the surprise of our glory days

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited
But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it.
I'd hoped you'd see my face and that you'd be reminded
That for me it isn't over.

Never mind, I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
Don't forget me, I beg
I remember you said,
"Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead."
Yeah

Nothing compares
No worries or cares
Regrets and mistakes
They are memories made.
Who would have known how bittersweet this would taste?

Never mind, I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you
Don't forget me, I beg
I remember you said,
"Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead."

Never mind, I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
Don't forget me, I beg
I remember you said,
"Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead,
Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead."
Yeah

Beautiful song choice. Couldn't have done better if I tried. Please note, no matter how well things are handled, and you are healed, we still will hurt at times. It is ok to be sad when you learn of things such as this. We are only human after all. If we weren't saddened by this, we would have to question our own emotional capabilities I think.

I felt I should share........