My Narc Living with OW currently advertising on Match.com - Active 3 days ago

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May 19 - 6PM (Reply to #6)
SoaperGirl
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Narc moved two weeks ago to be with OW

He moved a couple of weeks ago to Port Angeles, WA. MY God! What really amazes me is how fast he went on the prowl again no sooner than he moved there and he activated his membership again. I kind of feel sorry for the OW, because I don't think she had a clue about any of this...but I did try to warn her several times, and I think she chose to believe him!
May 19 - 6PM (Reply to #5)
SoaperGirl
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Cheaterville fan suggested that's probably where he found OW

So, I started running a search once or twice a week...just see if he might pop up. Yes, I think this is how he found OW. It's probably how usually finds his women. I made things much easier for him however. I was a fan of the daytime soap that his website featured...although we moved a lot slower. Off and on, we discussed the soap opera over the years...then his wife died a few years ago, and he kept crying and whining about it, I spent a year or so trying to comfort him...then there was about a six month courtship after that. Then, we had to wait another year for me to get old enough to retire, until I was operated on for cancer, and things cooled considerably over about 10 months time. He just couldn't seem to get me isolated in his horrible little house while he forced me to leave my own. Ugh is right!
May 19 - 6PM (Reply to #4)
heritage
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Love it! I hear ya!!!!

Love it! I hear ya!!!!
May 19 - 6PM
NinjaGirl
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Uh...

Conflicting statements much? "First up: I have zero interest in women with a lot of emotional baggage such that they still have guilt about moving on from a lost love." "I'm looking for a lady who understands what love truly is, had it once, lost it, and wants it back." Yeah, he sounds like SUCH a winner. Actually, he kinda in some ways reminds me of my ex narc. Creepy, hey?
May 19 - 6PM (Reply to #2)
SoaperGirl
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Very creepy!

If didn't already know what he and narcissism is, I might be tempted to fall for it...Well, as he says though, probably the one thing he's being honest about, about not believing in moving slow. I wonder how OW who is putting a roof over his head, food in his belly along with sex will take this? Will she ignore it, or have the ovaries to do somethng about it?