So I Attempted to Ask...Again...What is Going On??
So I Attempted to Ask...Again...What is Going On??
For whatever reason I thought it would be a good idea to try to get some answers about what happened to our "relationship."
I have tried this how many times in the past six months? Maybe five times, maybe six times. Could this be the time the truth is spoken and I finally can have answers, understanding and a finalization? You guessed it, girls....NO!
Asking what about the feelings he had for me, what happened to our great love, what happened about future plans. Same answers as always...everything is fine, I don't know what you are worried about, I like you the same, everything is good on this end.
This is not the truth! It is not good. It is totally the opposite of what it was. Maybe one day he will snap and say, "I can't stand you any more. You are of no use to me." Maybe some day he will say something that has an ounce of truth to it.
Like others have mentioned, he just goes on his merry way living his life in his marriage, going here, there and everywhere, living normally. It is is infuriating. I also think men in general, Narc or not, do not dwell on relationships the way females do. They are able to be done and move on more quickly, at least this has been my experience. Some of this stuff they are doing is typical male behavior, but the cold and unfeeling replies are what is the deal breaker that makes it so different.
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About him being married....
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I'm sorry you're hurting.
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I am not so sure that it was a lie....
Dating a married man...never
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I don't know why people can't just speak the truth
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