You guys I really, really fu--ed up I am in SUCH bad shape HELP

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May 13 - 11AM (Reply to #3)
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JRB123

You need to block him! You need to completely block him on FB so you don't see him at all and he can't see you. It's only hurting you more and is another form of contact. He knows you can see him liking and commenting on other women's posts so he's triangulating you in a sense and getting more supply by messing with your head. Blocking him will send the message you really mean business and will spoil some of his fun if you're not his audience anymore. Don't keep giving him the opportunity to "play" to you. If he's like mine, and they all are, this will frustrate him that you've taken the control away from him in this situation. Take back your power. Be in charge of his access to you. As it stands now, HE could block you at any moment and then how will you feel? Rejected again. Don't give him that chance.
May 13 - 1PM (Reply to #4)
JRB123
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Thanks

Thanks for your message of support. It is something I think about and I do want to but can't bring myself to do it just yet. It took me a couple of months after the D&D to unfriend him. I was so hurt by the silent treatment as he ignored me and posted all over my friends walls. Blocking is the next step but I'm kind of scared to. Why oh why do these men choose us to play games with? I need to toughen up.